"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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roja

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if you make new friend(s) who are AFC ,
Dont give free advice ,unless they ask for it

They believe in their old beliefs
They have to seek and willing to work/change
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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If you're not AFC, and your friends are, then you may also want to reconsider how much time you are spending with them. Every minute you spend with someone whom you deem not worthwhile is a minute wasted and a minute that you'll regret on your deathbed.
 

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Deadly_Ripped said:
If you're not AFC, and your friends are, then you may also want to reconsider how much time you are spending with them. Every minute you spend with someone whom you deem not worthwhile is a minute wasted and a minute that you'll regret on your deathbed.
great point
 

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Wish it was mine but there was a link on here a while ago to some free lecture videos by some balding and slightly overweight polygamist guy and that was a major point of his intro. The same applies to women you invite into your life.

I always offer insight to my friends because I was offered this website in 2001 and it changed my life drastically. If they decline I rarely press the issue, though.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It depends... Are you sitting in front of your computer all day trying to learn as much as you possibly can, or are you using the basics and making your own life? If you are actually using it, approaching in front of your friends, hanging with hot girls, etc. they will naturally ask for advice and want to be more like you. If you mostly act like them but somehow feel 'enlightened' for finding a site like this, yeah don't bother.

I have a couple of friends who are asking me stuff now, they would explain a situation, I would listen, then point out what I thought the problem was (or will be if they are about to do something stupid) and suggest if it doesn't/didn't work, then next time try my way. 'Hey look what happened when I did as you suggested!' Surprise.
 
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