I'm having some major issues with getting it up with my girlfriend. We've been able to have sex before multiple times but everyonce in a while I just can't get hard. Recently we've tried 3 times and nothing. I even tried doing it by myself in the shower and it didn't really work. So I'm starting to freak out. Everything points to performance anxiety but nothing really helps in getting rid of it. What should I have thinking in my head when were going to have sex. How do I fully relax? Is there anything to take?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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