“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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mhs09

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I'm having some major issues with getting it up with my girlfriend. We've been able to have sex before multiple times but everyonce in a while I just can't get hard. Recently we've tried 3 times and nothing. I even tried doing it by myself in the shower and it didn't really work. So I'm starting to freak out. Everything points to performance anxiety but nothing really helps in getting rid of it. What should I have thinking in my head when were going to have sex. How do I fully relax? Is there anything to take?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Warrior74

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The more you freak out the worse it will get. The more pressure the less performance.

If you don't work out, get in some good exericse to burn off some of that anxiety, boost your testoterone and to produce some endorphins.

Try to stay relaxed during the day. Do some meditation if you are into that. Or have some quiet relaxing time everyday.

Stay in the moment when you are with her...slow down and calm down...do extended foreplay..take your time and enjoy her. Only think about the things you can see, smell and touch...drop all the other fears and thoughts out of your mind. It's fear and overthinking that's killing your boner now. Enjoy the moment...think of the positive things, how good she looks, how she smells, how good its gonna feel to bone this chic.

I'm sure some other guys can pitch in with some good advice.
 
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