"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm having some major issues with getting it up with my girlfriend. We've been able to have sex before multiple times but everyonce in a while I just can't get hard. Recently we've tried 3 times and nothing. I even tried doing it by myself in the shower and it didn't really work. So I'm starting to freak out. Everything points to performance anxiety but nothing really helps in getting rid of it. What should I have thinking in my head when were going to have sex. How do I fully relax? Is there anything to take?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The more you freak out the worse it will get. The more pressure the less performance.

If you don't work out, get in some good exericse to burn off some of that anxiety, boost your testoterone and to produce some endorphins.

Try to stay relaxed during the day. Do some meditation if you are into that. Or have some quiet relaxing time everyday.

Stay in the moment when you are with her...slow down and calm down...do extended foreplay..take your time and enjoy her. Only think about the things you can see, smell and touch...drop all the other fears and thoughts out of your mind. It's fear and overthinking that's killing your boner now. Enjoy the moment...think of the positive things, how good she looks, how she smells, how good its gonna feel to bone this chic.

I'm sure some other guys can pitch in with some good advice.
 
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