A while back I remember reading somewhere that the strictly platonic section of craigslist was a decent online resource for chicks. So i decided to browse it. I emailed one chick whose ad piqued my interest. She's the same nationality as me (Irish) and was looking to meet an Irish person. She also mentioned that she wanted the guy to be tall and handsome so I figured she was looking for a date by specifying that.
The initial emails were very enthusiastic from her side so I quickly set up a coffee date. I met her for coffee last Tuesday and we spent two hours chatting inside the shop. She's 29 and I'd say a HB7. I thought we clicked fairly well and it was certainly more enjoyable conversation than I've had on a date for a while. We were busting each other on different things about Ireland and also talking about family.
I got some flirting and some light kino in but didn't kiss her. We parted company at Park T stop so it wasn't great logistics wise. I should have suggest walking through the park or something
My worry now is that I haven't sexualized the interaction enough and she views me as a friend. I tried to set up going for drinks this week but she's been busy. Her counter offer is for me and my friends to join her and a friend of hers for happy hour on Friday.
I'm not really digging this idea. I don't want to introduce a bunch of my friends to some chick I met off craigslist and I've met in real life a total of one times. I'm thinking I should try once more for a one on one date and leave it slide if that doesn't transpire. Any other ideas?
The initial emails were very enthusiastic from her side so I quickly set up a coffee date. I met her for coffee last Tuesday and we spent two hours chatting inside the shop. She's 29 and I'd say a HB7. I thought we clicked fairly well and it was certainly more enjoyable conversation than I've had on a date for a while. We were busting each other on different things about Ireland and also talking about family.
I got some flirting and some light kino in but didn't kiss her. We parted company at Park T stop so it wasn't great logistics wise. I should have suggest walking through the park or something
My worry now is that I haven't sexualized the interaction enough and she views me as a friend. I tried to set up going for drinks this week but she's been busy. Her counter offer is for me and my friends to join her and a friend of hers for happy hour on Friday.
I'm not really digging this idea. I don't want to introduce a bunch of my friends to some chick I met off craigslist and I've met in real life a total of one times. I'm thinking I should try once more for a one on one date and leave it slide if that doesn't transpire. Any other ideas?