“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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FR: Suck it up , b!atchhh. Back to chode

Daddy The Pimp

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Ok guys . Ill give you a quick summary of what happened on Saturday.

-I went out with 4 other guys.
-The bouncers stopped us and didnt let us in in the first club.(5 fvcking guys)
-We tried another club. We had to wait in line for 20 minutes. My state died.
-I got nervous.
-I go in but dont feel like opening sets because im nervous and my mood is ****ty.
-I open some sets. Reject , reject , reject.
-I go back , join the group that i went in with. We chode around some more.
-I decide to open some more sets.I open one but couldnt close. I dont numberclose before kiss closing.


Ok now , to answer your question.
Why i wrote this field report?



I wrote this to tell ya guys that even after being really good in this game , i still have same problems as you sometimes. But whats the difference between you and me ?
I dont see this as a failure. I see it as a lesson , as a night that happened to make good nights appear more beautiful. I know this happens to you too. But look at it as in a big picture. Look at it and laugh. Look at it as a step to get near your destination.

Also , while in the field , STOP BEING INSIDE YOUR FVCKING HEAD. Stop thinking. Stop. Just live the moment.Just enjoy , laugh , relax and think for nothing else but THE NOW.
Being inside my head and letting external things overwhelm my state destroyed my night. I know this is destroying your nights out too. This and your neediness. I was also needy because i was trying to prove myself that i can get girls even when my state is down and im very nervous.

Hope you learned something from this and learned that everyone has these kind of problems but they look it as a lesson and learn from it.


Cheers
DTP






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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TheBucketOfTruth

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I know what you mean. The club is kind of hit and miss for me. I'm not big into dancing, and I really have to be in the right mood. Sometimes you go and just aren't feeling it at all; you're not in the right headspace. It definitely works against you.
 

Daddy The Pimp

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Exactly. When you're not in the right headspace , your more willing to screw things up. I know i could have gotten in the right headspace if i really tried , but i was refusing it , i was refusing to let go the anger.

Anyway , a new club is opening tomorrow. Wait for a hell of a field report. I have to take away the bitter taste that last week left on my mouth
 
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