"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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FR: Suck it up , b!atchhh. Back to chode

Daddy The Pimp

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Ok guys . Ill give you a quick summary of what happened on Saturday.

-I went out with 4 other guys.
-The bouncers stopped us and didnt let us in in the first club.(5 fvcking guys)
-We tried another club. We had to wait in line for 20 minutes. My state died.
-I got nervous.
-I go in but dont feel like opening sets because im nervous and my mood is ****ty.
-I open some sets. Reject , reject , reject.
-I go back , join the group that i went in with. We chode around some more.
-I decide to open some more sets.I open one but couldnt close. I dont numberclose before kiss closing.


Ok now , to answer your question.
Why i wrote this field report?



I wrote this to tell ya guys that even after being really good in this game , i still have same problems as you sometimes. But whats the difference between you and me ?
I dont see this as a failure. I see it as a lesson , as a night that happened to make good nights appear more beautiful. I know this happens to you too. But look at it as in a big picture. Look at it and laugh. Look at it as a step to get near your destination.

Also , while in the field , STOP BEING INSIDE YOUR FVCKING HEAD. Stop thinking. Stop. Just live the moment.Just enjoy , laugh , relax and think for nothing else but THE NOW.
Being inside my head and letting external things overwhelm my state destroyed my night. I know this is destroying your nights out too. This and your neediness. I was also needy because i was trying to prove myself that i can get girls even when my state is down and im very nervous.

Hope you learned something from this and learned that everyone has these kind of problems but they look it as a lesson and learn from it.


Cheers
DTP






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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TheBucketOfTruth

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I know what you mean. The club is kind of hit and miss for me. I'm not big into dancing, and I really have to be in the right mood. Sometimes you go and just aren't feeling it at all; you're not in the right headspace. It definitely works against you.
 

Daddy The Pimp

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Exactly. When you're not in the right headspace , your more willing to screw things up. I know i could have gotten in the right headspace if i really tried , but i was refusing it , i was refusing to let go the anger.

Anyway , a new club is opening tomorrow. Wait for a hell of a field report. I have to take away the bitter taste that last week left on my mouth
 
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