"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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FR: Suck it up , b!atchhh. Back to chode

Daddy The Pimp

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Ok guys . Ill give you a quick summary of what happened on Saturday.

-I went out with 4 other guys.
-The bouncers stopped us and didnt let us in in the first club.(5 fvcking guys)
-We tried another club. We had to wait in line for 20 minutes. My state died.
-I got nervous.
-I go in but dont feel like opening sets because im nervous and my mood is ****ty.
-I open some sets. Reject , reject , reject.
-I go back , join the group that i went in with. We chode around some more.
-I decide to open some more sets.I open one but couldnt close. I dont numberclose before kiss closing.


Ok now , to answer your question.
Why i wrote this field report?



I wrote this to tell ya guys that even after being really good in this game , i still have same problems as you sometimes. But whats the difference between you and me ?
I dont see this as a failure. I see it as a lesson , as a night that happened to make good nights appear more beautiful. I know this happens to you too. But look at it as in a big picture. Look at it and laugh. Look at it as a step to get near your destination.

Also , while in the field , STOP BEING INSIDE YOUR FVCKING HEAD. Stop thinking. Stop. Just live the moment.Just enjoy , laugh , relax and think for nothing else but THE NOW.
Being inside my head and letting external things overwhelm my state destroyed my night. I know this is destroying your nights out too. This and your neediness. I was also needy because i was trying to prove myself that i can get girls even when my state is down and im very nervous.

Hope you learned something from this and learned that everyone has these kind of problems but they look it as a lesson and learn from it.


Cheers
DTP






:up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TheBucketOfTruth

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I know what you mean. The club is kind of hit and miss for me. I'm not big into dancing, and I really have to be in the right mood. Sometimes you go and just aren't feeling it at all; you're not in the right headspace. It definitely works against you.
 

Daddy The Pimp

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Exactly. When you're not in the right headspace , your more willing to screw things up. I know i could have gotten in the right headspace if i really tried , but i was refusing it , i was refusing to let go the anger.

Anyway , a new club is opening tomorrow. Wait for a hell of a field report. I have to take away the bitter taste that last week left on my mouth
 
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