Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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FR: So this is what's happened today.

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Unlike most of my FR's, this is going to be more of a journal. Not the 'approach' in boxes thing I usually do. Nothing really happened until afterschool when I approached this Joey girl and got her number. So she told me what she was there afterschool for, we talked about Rock Band and I told her I knew her sister. Eventually I'm like, "Hey, I had a good time talking to you. Can I get your number?" and she goes "If you want it". So I give her my phone and to my surprise, not only does the girl put in the number like most girls, she saved me the trouble of putting the name in and did that for me to. So after that, I start talking about the play and her brother comes in and I start including him in the set as well. Eventually I close out of that set and leave.

Then the most random thing ever happens, I'm sitting in the front of the building and this group of Freshman girls starts coming up to me acting all horny and stuff. Two of the particular girls eventually come up to me and I'm like "I'm sorry you guys are too young" and gently push both of them away and while they're leaving I hear one of them saying "Call me!". Moving on to the play, basically during the play, the most interesting thing was when I just chilled with these girls. Eventually Allie came in and she was giving me a bunch of interest, constantly looking back at me and once I can remember saying "Sorry girls, VIP only" when they looked, to which I remember them laughing. But yeah, that's basically today's interactions.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Don't hate, I got the number and I don't see you guys hating getting anything.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Whats that stuff women put on before they go out?

Oh yeah. Make up.
 

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lol Wescott you're the new neighborhood troll. Seriously, every thread you post in of mine you say something report worthy. It's not so much that the post was bad, it just has ZERO to do with the topic.
 

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Report me then. If that makes you feel any better about making up field reports, report me.
 

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In Motion said:
WTF is it with you and Rock Band?
this is the reason why a girl who gave elstud her number will flake every time. You're not supposed to bring up Rock Band and video games. For example, what do you think would be a girl's response if I said, "yeah, I think Super Mario on Nintendo is really cool. I'm really good at it. Do you like it?" Well, she'll think "what a nerdy loser!" but say "yeah I played that before." See it gets you nowhere and turns a girl off to you... the exact opposed of what you want to happen.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ElStud said:
we talked about Rock Band and I told her I knew her sister. Eventually I'm like, "Hey, I had a good time talking to you. Can I get your number?" and she goes "If you want it".
what you said here is really bad. Can you not tell she's not into you at all? This girl won't remember you. Also, I would suggest coming up with another line to ask for her number. What you said seems like you had rehearsed it before. Try and make it seem more natural.
 

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WesCottII said:
Report me then. If that makes you feel any better about making up field reports, report me.
Making up FR's, oh stop hating man. When I see you, I see no DJ, I see someone who uses tricks on women and acts like an overall *******. What's deeper though, is the REASON WHY you're accusing me of making sh*t up. And why? I don't really care, because one day you're going to realize just because you say or think something it's not true. Basically, you can say my FR's are fake however many times you want, but it'll never be true. I think we've got quite a delusional guy on our hands. And in the end? Who gives a crap about what you think, asshole? I'm still going to be approaching girls, getting their numbers and making FR's, despite you claiming they're fake, WITH NO PROOF OR EVIDENCE.
 

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ElStud said:
Making up FR's, oh stop hating man. When I see you, I see no DJ, I see someone who uses tricks on women and acts like an overall *******. What's deeper though, is the REASON WHY you're accusing me of making sh*t up. And why? I don't really care, because one day you're going to realize just because you say or think something it's not true. Basically, you can say my FR's are fake however many times you want, but it'll never be true. I think we've got quite a delusional guy on our hands. And in the end? Who gives a crap about what you think, asshole? I'm still going to be approaching girls, getting their numbers and making FR's, despite you claiming they're fake, WITH NO PROOF OR EVIDENCE.
Let me ask you a question. Do you want numbers or sex?

Girls give out numbers like candy, getting sex is a whole different story...
 

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HandyAndy said:
Or seeing jesus walking down the street :p
And I still get numbers, which is something I've yet to see TrollingAndy do or Arizona's ice pee do.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ElStud said:
Then the most random thing ever happens, I'm sitting in the front of the building and this group of Freshman girls starts coming up to me acting all horny and stuff. Two of the particular girls eventually come up to me and I'm like "I'm sorry you guys are too young" and gently push both of them away and while they're leaving I hear one of them saying "Call me!"
Uh sorry bro but....in high school, when girls do that, they are making fun of you man. :crackup:
 

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well i have gotten more numbers than you and it isn't what i spend every waking hour caring about. get a hobby. get a girlfriend... stop finding girls that you think are your friends. hookup with someone already! i could go up to 90% of the girls in my school tomorrow and get their numbers, but i just don't care...

but, i challenge you to a duel. we will see who can get a 15 numbers the fastest :D

now we just need a way to make sure its legit... any ideas?
 

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ElStud said:
And I still get numbers, which is something I've yet to see TrollingAndy do or Arizona's ice pee do.
Have you encountered the possibility that they DONT post every single interaction they have with the opposite sex? When I get a girls number I don go and post the entire story on some forum.
 

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ElStud said:
Making up FR's, oh stop hating man. When I see you, I see no DJ, I see someone who uses tricks on women and acts like an overall *******. What's deeper though, is the REASON WHY you're accusing me of making sh*t up. And why? I don't really care, because one day you're going to realize just because you say or think something it's not true. Basically, you can say my FR's are fake however many times you want, but it'll never be true. I think we've got quite a delusional guy on our hands. And in the end? Who gives a crap about what you think, asshole? I'm still going to be approaching girls, getting their numbers and making FR's, despite you claiming they're fake, WITH NO PROOF OR EVIDENCE.
Wow, toys really are out the pram now. Want a kleenex?

When I see you, I see no DJ, I see a loser, plain and simple.

Jees, you are retarded. When do I use tricks? Everything I've told women in pick-ups is true and has happened to me. Unlike you, who sucked with women, and we told you it was pointless without getting a number, and now, lo and behold...you get a number with every interaction? Nah. It's crap. 'Specially from you, who got thrown out from A&F for being creepy, and all of a sudden you're Brad Pitt of the seduction world? Too unbelievable, especially, since you have the emotional age of a 3 year old, can't debate, cry over every reply to your threads, but still persist in posting boring, unbelievable interactions.

You're a joke kiddo.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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