Leah
Don Juan
I wonder if she really did have an STD or if your ex was just being bitter? This HB sounds a bit slutty to me, I think you had a lucky escape 
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I'll have to remember that. Good FR.This is basically my little theory - based on the kinetic interactions i have with my pet dog...Hell NO!! Guys - i mean petting her you psychos!! - if i stroke her for say 30 seconds, then take away my hand - she will claw at me and bite at me to stroke her again - attention seeking if you will - i apply the same basic principle to women :-
- Going in for a kiss -then pulling away at the last moment
= She grabs my head and pulls me in for a kiss - RESIST!! Kiss her on your own terms.
- Holding her hips and then taking your hands away
= She'll grab your hands and put them back - RESIST!! Take them off and put them somewhere else.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Lol, that happened to me twice... once I was so flustered I choked... the second time I was like "sure" and she really wanted to, despite that I doubted it.Originally posted by The_Shezzler
Me neither until Friday night![]()
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.