Leah
Don Juan
I wonder if she really did have an STD or if your ex was just being bitter? This HB sounds a bit slutty to me, I think you had a lucky escape 
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I'll have to remember that. Good FR.This is basically my little theory - based on the kinetic interactions i have with my pet dog...Hell NO!! Guys - i mean petting her you psychos!! - if i stroke her for say 30 seconds, then take away my hand - she will claw at me and bite at me to stroke her again - attention seeking if you will - i apply the same basic principle to women :-
- Going in for a kiss -then pulling away at the last moment
= She grabs my head and pulls me in for a kiss - RESIST!! Kiss her on your own terms.
- Holding her hips and then taking your hands away
= She'll grab your hands and put them back - RESIST!! Take them off and put them somewhere else.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Lol, that happened to me twice... once I was so flustered I choked... the second time I was like "sure" and she really wanted to, despite that I doubted it.Originally posted by The_Shezzler
Me neither until Friday night![]()
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.