"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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FR: Reporting what I did in the field today.

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You guys know the drill, I approached today and here I'm going to tell you about the approaches. So here's the one approach I made...

I basically start talking to the girls, they're not really paying attention to me. Then I talk to the guy and start talking to the girls again, asking them what I did this weekend. Then I'm talking and one girl tries to blow me out by I plow through that. So the girls start singing this song, singing "I want you baby!" and I said "You girls are going to have to try harder than that". And yeah, other than that I talked about how I was learning the trumpet and the girls seemed pretty interested. And eventually, the bell rings.
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So that's the approach, nothing particularly interesting.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dav22 said:
Then don't post it :crackup:
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I don't care if it's NOT interesting to you, I don't post these for you. Using the same logic if you're not going to post anything useful, "don't post it :crackup:". Don't be a hypocrite now.
 
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why do you always say the girls seem pretty interested, every post?
j/w
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ElStud, if you have questions or something, we'd be happy to help. but these posts are ridiculous man. i mean, i was downtown for about three hours today and i had about four conversations with people similar to what you post here.

i'm proud of the fact that you're 17 and on top of this stuff - it bodes well for you in life - but stop swamping the boards with inane conversations.
 
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ElStud said:
I don't care if it's NOT interesting to you, I don't post these for you.
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If you don't care then don't post.
 
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You guys are so immature lmao...
Either help the guy or crawl back into your closet.

Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
why do you always say the girls seem pretty interested, every post?
j/w
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I notice a trend with all the guys spamming. They talk big, they have less than 100 post. Nonetheless, I'm not doing this kiddy crap and if you want to do kiddy crap like spam my topic and make useless post, do that in the Kindergarden Forum. This is the Don Juan Forum, if you're going to that baby sh1t, don't bother posting.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How about you post when you actually get their numbers and eventually fvck them? We dont need to know about how you started joking around with a group of people and you almost missed class. Thats what a diary is for.
 
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Chaotixxx said:
How about you post when you actually get their numbers and eventually fvck them? We dont need to know about how you started joking around with a group of people and you almost missed class. Thats what a diary is for.
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