"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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FR: Reporting what I did in the field today.

ElStud

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You guys know the drill, I approached today and here I'm going to tell you about the approaches. So here's the one approach I made...

I basically start talking to the girls, they're not really paying attention to me. Then I talk to the guy and start talking to the girls again, asking them what I did this weekend. Then I'm talking and one girl tries to blow me out by I plow through that. So the girls start singing this song, singing "I want you baby!" and I said "You girls are going to have to try harder than that". And yeah, other than that I talked about how I was learning the trumpet and the girls seemed pretty interested. And eventually, the bell rings.
So that's the approach, nothing particularly interesting.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ElStud

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dav22 said:
Then don't post it :crackup:
I don't care if it's NOT interesting to you, I don't post these for you. Using the same logic if you're not going to post anything useful, "don't post it :crackup:". Don't be a hypocrite now.
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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why do you always say the girls seem pretty interested, every post?
j/w
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ElStud, if you have questions or something, we'd be happy to help. but these posts are ridiculous man. i mean, i was downtown for about three hours today and i had about four conversations with people similar to what you post here.

i'm proud of the fact that you're 17 and on top of this stuff - it bodes well for you in life - but stop swamping the boards with inane conversations.
 

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ElStud said:
I don't care if it's NOT interesting to you, I don't post these for you.
If you don't care then don't post.
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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You guys are so immature lmao...
Either help the guy or crawl back into your closet.

Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
why do you always say the girls seem pretty interested, every post?
j/w
 

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I notice a trend with all the guys spamming. They talk big, they have less than 100 post. Nonetheless, I'm not doing this kiddy crap and if you want to do kiddy crap like spam my topic and make useless post, do that in the Kindergarden Forum. This is the Don Juan Forum, if you're going to that baby sh1t, don't bother posting.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How about you post when you actually get their numbers and eventually fvck them? We dont need to know about how you started joking around with a group of people and you almost missed class. Thats what a diary is for.
 

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Chaotixxx said:
How about you post when you actually get their numbers and eventually fvck them? We dont need to know about how you started joking around with a group of people and you almost missed class. Thats what a diary is for.
:up:
 
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