"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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FR: Reporting what I did in the field today.

ElStud

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You guys know the drill, I approached today and here I'm going to tell you about the approaches. So here's the one approach I made...

I basically start talking to the girls, they're not really paying attention to me. Then I talk to the guy and start talking to the girls again, asking them what I did this weekend. Then I'm talking and one girl tries to blow me out by I plow through that. So the girls start singing this song, singing "I want you baby!" and I said "You girls are going to have to try harder than that". And yeah, other than that I talked about how I was learning the trumpet and the girls seemed pretty interested. And eventually, the bell rings.
So that's the approach, nothing particularly interesting.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ElStud

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dav22 said:
Then don't post it :crackup:
I don't care if it's NOT interesting to you, I don't post these for you. Using the same logic if you're not going to post anything useful, "don't post it :crackup:". Don't be a hypocrite now.
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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why do you always say the girls seem pretty interested, every post?
j/w
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ElStud, if you have questions or something, we'd be happy to help. but these posts are ridiculous man. i mean, i was downtown for about three hours today and i had about four conversations with people similar to what you post here.

i'm proud of the fact that you're 17 and on top of this stuff - it bodes well for you in life - but stop swamping the boards with inane conversations.
 

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ElStud said:
I don't care if it's NOT interesting to you, I don't post these for you.
If you don't care then don't post.
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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You guys are so immature lmao...
Either help the guy or crawl back into your closet.

Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
why do you always say the girls seem pretty interested, every post?
j/w
 

ElStud

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I notice a trend with all the guys spamming. They talk big, they have less than 100 post. Nonetheless, I'm not doing this kiddy crap and if you want to do kiddy crap like spam my topic and make useless post, do that in the Kindergarden Forum. This is the Don Juan Forum, if you're going to that baby sh1t, don't bother posting.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How about you post when you actually get their numbers and eventually fvck them? We dont need to know about how you started joking around with a group of people and you almost missed class. Thats what a diary is for.
 

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Chaotixxx said:
How about you post when you actually get their numbers and eventually fvck them? We dont need to know about how you started joking around with a group of people and you almost missed class. Thats what a diary is for.
:up:
 
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