"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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FR: Reporting what I did in the field today.

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You guys know the drill, I approached today and here I'm going to tell you about the approaches. So here's the one approach I made...

I basically start talking to the girls, they're not really paying attention to me. Then I talk to the guy and start talking to the girls again, asking them what I did this weekend. Then I'm talking and one girl tries to blow me out by I plow through that. So the girls start singing this song, singing "I want you baby!" and I said "You girls are going to have to try harder than that". And yeah, other than that I talked about how I was learning the trumpet and the girls seemed pretty interested. And eventually, the bell rings.
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So that's the approach, nothing particularly interesting.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dav22 said:
Then don't post it :crackup:
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I don't care if it's NOT interesting to you, I don't post these for you. Using the same logic if you're not going to post anything useful, "don't post it :crackup:". Don't be a hypocrite now.
 
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why do you always say the girls seem pretty interested, every post?
j/w
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ElStud, if you have questions or something, we'd be happy to help. but these posts are ridiculous man. i mean, i was downtown for about three hours today and i had about four conversations with people similar to what you post here.

i'm proud of the fact that you're 17 and on top of this stuff - it bodes well for you in life - but stop swamping the boards with inane conversations.
 
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ElStud said:
I don't care if it's NOT interesting to you, I don't post these for you.
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If you don't care then don't post.
 
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You guys are so immature lmao...
Either help the guy or crawl back into your closet.

Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
why do you always say the girls seem pretty interested, every post?
j/w
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I notice a trend with all the guys spamming. They talk big, they have less than 100 post. Nonetheless, I'm not doing this kiddy crap and if you want to do kiddy crap like spam my topic and make useless post, do that in the Kindergarden Forum. This is the Don Juan Forum, if you're going to that baby sh1t, don't bother posting.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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How about you post when you actually get their numbers and eventually fvck them? We dont need to know about how you started joking around with a group of people and you almost missed class. Thats what a diary is for.
 
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Chaotixxx said:
How about you post when you actually get their numbers and eventually fvck them? We dont need to know about how you started joking around with a group of people and you almost missed class. Thats what a diary is for.
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