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FR: Pouring rain spoils a golden opportunity...uggghhh

BackInTheGame78

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Missed a golden opportunity for an F close, due to circumstances and the situation I'm currently in where I have no where to take a potential lay...


Girl I've been talking to off and on for about a month and a half...randomly texts me "I'm bored" around 5:30 yesterday evening...seizing a golden opportunity I texted back "Come grab a drink with me tonight"...meet up around 10:30 and she is looking right...better than the pics...

Walk into the place, get a drink, we are standing at the bar talking for a while when I tell her let's grab a seat and lead her to the back corner where the only 2 open tables are...start Kino'ing her, stroking her hair, give her a neck and shoulder massage...start smelling her hair and tell her how good she smells...she leans back into me so I wrap my arms around her and start kissing her neck..she seems to be enjoying it then says she has to go to the bathroom...

Comes back out and I'm standing up near our table and she gets behind me and starts grinding on me and rubbing her hands up and down my body...I turn around and she puts her arms around me and we start kissing...after a while we start talking as we are rubbing our hands up and down each other and the conversation turns pretty sexual..after a while of seductive dancing and more kissing(started kissing her neck), I tell her let's get out of here, take her hand and lead her to the exit..she doesn't say anything and we get to the door and its pouring rain...both of us parked 3 blocks away due to it being really crowded, I had to work early this morning and it was already 1am...

She said she was going to stay...we kissed again and she told me to call her...I left irritated that the rain prevented me from heading down a dark alley and railing this chick...

Couldn't go to her place, she has kids, can't go to my place...had the chance...ruined by rain...

Thinking I set someone up big time to get laid last night...she has been studying for a huge test at the end of the month, really stressed and wanted to blow off some steam...

Chalk it up to the game...win some you lose some...been a long time since I tried pulling a chick on a first date so at least I feel good about the attempt and her compliance...

I'll see what happens from here

Lesson learned---don't give up so easily if you don't meet up with a girl right away...its been almost a week since I texted her last and she said she was doing timed tests and would get back to me later...6 days later I got the chance and pounced on it...probably only texted maybe 6-7 days out of last 45, sporadically..maybe once a week or once every 10 days...as long as you lay back and be cool, you might get a random chance out of the blue...if you do, seize it.
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Damn bro...I know you must be burnt about that one. Good job at least getting to that point. Nothing more frustrating than the moment you realize all the work you put in went to waste. You going to try and get her out again?
 

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That sucks, but one possible solution for next time is instead tell her "wait here", then go run off to get your vehicle. Yes you'll get soaked...so what. You'll get soaked by her pvss later that night if it's going as good as what you're saying. Then drive up, pick her up, and off you go.
 

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BetterCallSaul said:
That sucks, but one possible solution for next time is instead tell her "wait here", then go run off to get your vehicle. Yes you'll get soaked...so what. You'll get soaked by her pvss later that night if it's going as good as what you're saying. Then drive up, pick her up, and off you go.
Well...honestly the only option there was to find a place nearby and get at it...no motels in the area only high price hotels and neither of our places was an option at that point
 
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