When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Pretty sh*tty approach there.I sit down by these two girls at lunch...
Me: So what'd you do this weekend?
Girl: Nothing.
Me: Well I basically just...
[Then I tell her what I did during weekend]
Blah blah...
Me: So what'd she do during her weekend?
Girl: She's tired.
Me: Ah, she did a lot of romping this weekend...
Girl: What I can't understand you.
Me: Oh, I said she did a lot of romping this weekend.
Girl: What! No. Look I have to go to library.
[Then the chicks leave]
So that was that interaction.So I'm at lunch and I talk to the typical chicks there, mainly Rebecca and Lindsey and this is how that sh*t went.
- For the first part of the lunch period I was just sitting there, but then I decided to go up to these chicks.
Then at first the convo really go so well, but then the set sort of opened up. Can't really remember the specifics but I'll tell you what I can remember.
- At one point I'm just touching Lindsey and she eventually started to touch me back.
- In one part of the interaction, I'm just touching Rebecca constantly and she's like "Why are you touching me?". Blah blah, she eventually starts to go off "I mean it would be okay if you could just give me one good reason for touching me". Course' being me I just plow through that sh*t and keep touching her anyway.
- I was roleplaying with the girls at one point in the conversation where I basically said "I'll have to confiscate these boots, see miss I'm with the police department and I need to confiscate those boots" and both of the girls where laughing at it.
- At one point, once the set had opened, I was like "So what'd you do this weekend, mam?" to Lindsey and she didn't really reply and then Rebecca asked "What did you do over your weekend?" and things expanded off of that.
- One point in the interaction, I'm like just playing with Rebecca and getting all close to her and Lindsey's like "Why don't you give her a kiss on the lips?" and ofcourse I was like "No" and acted all grossed about it and moved back.
- So towards the end of the set the girls seemed interested, but then they did this where they kicked my seat back and one girl said "You're too close to us". Why'd they do it? Who knows, hah and franky, who cares.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Because they thought you were creepy and they werent interested...they kicked my seat back and one girl said "You're too close to us". Why'd they do it?
...lolCourse' being me I just plow through that sh*t and keep touching her anyway
Why didn't you?- One point in the interaction, I'm like just playing with Rebecca and getting all close to her and Lindsey's like "Why don't you give her a kiss on the lips?" and ofcourse I was like "No" and acted all grossed about it and moved back.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
He still could have used that comment to his advantage instead of simply saying noGrand Wizzard Alamar said:Good job ElStud, I'm lovin them new approaches.
Oh btw it was actually right to say no to the kiss thing because if he had said yes he'd look like even more of a loser.
Props for that.
No he could not have becuase.. well.. IT NEVER HAPPENEDBannedGod said:He still could have used that comment to his advantage instead of simply saying no
Which is why one of the girls where flirting with me and they were giving me IOI's(Asking questions and sh1t). Yeah, there's a good reason you're ignored HandyAndy. There's a chance they WHERE interested at first and just lost interest. Who knows, who cares. I go in there with the mindset of simply testing a bunch of stuff until the girls blow me out.Because they thought you were creepy and they werent interested...
"Loser" you seem to know a lot about me man. You a stalker or something? Then shush. Until you actually sit down and talk with me or anyone else you have NO right to call anyone a loser. Especially when you're a troll notorius as yourself. I can just as easily say you're a fat, gay crossdresser, because I'm saying sh1t about you without knowing you.Grand Wizzard Alamar said:Good job ElStud, I'm lovin them new approaches.
Oh btw it was actually right to say no to the kiss thing because if he had said yes he'd look like even more of a loser.
Props for that.
But how so man? Any AFC could say "You're doing it wrong". HOW am I doing it wrong? lol I know the first one sucked, but the girls where interested at one point in the second one, but I still know I screwed that one up.ChrizZ said:El Stud, you are doing it wrong.
Read My FR Journal (it's in my sig) to understand how to have good solid interactions and PM if you have questions.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.