Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Pretty sh*tty approach there.I sit down by these two girls at lunch...
Me: So what'd you do this weekend?
Girl: Nothing.
Me: Well I basically just...
[Then I tell her what I did during weekend]
Blah blah...
Me: So what'd she do during her weekend?
Girl: She's tired.
Me: Ah, she did a lot of romping this weekend...
Girl: What I can't understand you.
Me: Oh, I said she did a lot of romping this weekend.
Girl: What! No. Look I have to go to library.
[Then the chicks leave]
So that was that interaction.So I'm at lunch and I talk to the typical chicks there, mainly Rebecca and Lindsey and this is how that sh*t went.
- For the first part of the lunch period I was just sitting there, but then I decided to go up to these chicks.
Then at first the convo really go so well, but then the set sort of opened up. Can't really remember the specifics but I'll tell you what I can remember.
- At one point I'm just touching Lindsey and she eventually started to touch me back.
- In one part of the interaction, I'm just touching Rebecca constantly and she's like "Why are you touching me?". Blah blah, she eventually starts to go off "I mean it would be okay if you could just give me one good reason for touching me". Course' being me I just plow through that sh*t and keep touching her anyway.
- I was roleplaying with the girls at one point in the conversation where I basically said "I'll have to confiscate these boots, see miss I'm with the police department and I need to confiscate those boots" and both of the girls where laughing at it.
- At one point, once the set had opened, I was like "So what'd you do this weekend, mam?" to Lindsey and she didn't really reply and then Rebecca asked "What did you do over your weekend?" and things expanded off of that.
- One point in the interaction, I'm like just playing with Rebecca and getting all close to her and Lindsey's like "Why don't you give her a kiss on the lips?" and ofcourse I was like "No" and acted all grossed about it and moved back.
- So towards the end of the set the girls seemed interested, but then they did this where they kicked my seat back and one girl said "You're too close to us". Why'd they do it? Who knows, hah and franky, who cares.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Because they thought you were creepy and they werent interested...they kicked my seat back and one girl said "You're too close to us". Why'd they do it?
...lolCourse' being me I just plow through that sh*t and keep touching her anyway
Why didn't you?- One point in the interaction, I'm like just playing with Rebecca and getting all close to her and Lindsey's like "Why don't you give her a kiss on the lips?" and ofcourse I was like "No" and acted all grossed about it and moved back.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
He still could have used that comment to his advantage instead of simply saying noGrand Wizzard Alamar said:Good job ElStud, I'm lovin them new approaches.
Oh btw it was actually right to say no to the kiss thing because if he had said yes he'd look like even more of a loser.
Props for that.
No he could not have becuase.. well.. IT NEVER HAPPENEDBannedGod said:He still could have used that comment to his advantage instead of simply saying no
Which is why one of the girls where flirting with me and they were giving me IOI's(Asking questions and sh1t). Yeah, there's a good reason you're ignored HandyAndy. There's a chance they WHERE interested at first and just lost interest. Who knows, who cares. I go in there with the mindset of simply testing a bunch of stuff until the girls blow me out.Because they thought you were creepy and they werent interested...
"Loser" you seem to know a lot about me man. You a stalker or something? Then shush. Until you actually sit down and talk with me or anyone else you have NO right to call anyone a loser. Especially when you're a troll notorius as yourself. I can just as easily say you're a fat, gay crossdresser, because I'm saying sh1t about you without knowing you.Grand Wizzard Alamar said:Good job ElStud, I'm lovin them new approaches.
Oh btw it was actually right to say no to the kiss thing because if he had said yes he'd look like even more of a loser.
Props for that.
But how so man? Any AFC could say "You're doing it wrong". HOW am I doing it wrong? lol I know the first one sucked, but the girls where interested at one point in the second one, but I still know I screwed that one up.ChrizZ said:El Stud, you are doing it wrong.
Read My FR Journal (it's in my sig) to understand how to have good solid interactions and PM if you have questions.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.