"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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FR, kinda, Update on the one I thought I ruined, May be back in it

TheBaconator

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This is an update to the post i put up a couple days ago about how I totally fed it up with a sure thing by talkin to her wasted.

So I go to the store yest to pickup a steak with a prepared note

"Guess I shoulda stuck with texts. I can't say I member what I said the other nite, but i'm sure I wasn't pleasant. So just wanted to apologize for my drunkness. Sry if I was a duche".

I get on her line and say hi and she smiles and says something about kindey stones and she has to tlk to me. So i'm thinkin that mite be why no call back.

So as I pay I slip the note and she is surprised and has a big smile and laugh, slips it her pocket and then says "no beers tonight", I reply "maybe I learned my lesson w/ a laugh" and her "maybe w/ a grin". I leave.

She didn't text me or anything later but I'm thinking she still has interest. So worst case if she don't hit me up ill hit it up in 4-5 days and suggest a date.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Joe Stud

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Hang in there bro, she aint quit on you yet. Good idea making a joke out of it. be patient
 
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