"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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FR, kinda, Update on the one I thought I ruined, May be back in it

TheBaconator

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This is an update to the post i put up a couple days ago about how I totally fed it up with a sure thing by talkin to her wasted.

So I go to the store yest to pickup a steak with a prepared note

"Guess I shoulda stuck with texts. I can't say I member what I said the other nite, but i'm sure I wasn't pleasant. So just wanted to apologize for my drunkness. Sry if I was a duche".

I get on her line and say hi and she smiles and says something about kindey stones and she has to tlk to me. So i'm thinkin that mite be why no call back.

So as I pay I slip the note and she is surprised and has a big smile and laugh, slips it her pocket and then says "no beers tonight", I reply "maybe I learned my lesson w/ a laugh" and her "maybe w/ a grin". I leave.

She didn't text me or anything later but I'm thinking she still has interest. So worst case if she don't hit me up ill hit it up in 4-5 days and suggest a date.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Joe Stud

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Hang in there bro, she aint quit on you yet. Good idea making a joke out of it. be patient
 
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