"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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FR, kinda, Update on the one I thought I ruined, May be back in it

TheBaconator

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This is an update to the post i put up a couple days ago about how I totally fed it up with a sure thing by talkin to her wasted.

So I go to the store yest to pickup a steak with a prepared note

"Guess I shoulda stuck with texts. I can't say I member what I said the other nite, but i'm sure I wasn't pleasant. So just wanted to apologize for my drunkness. Sry if I was a duche".

I get on her line and say hi and she smiles and says something about kindey stones and she has to tlk to me. So i'm thinkin that mite be why no call back.

So as I pay I slip the note and she is surprised and has a big smile and laugh, slips it her pocket and then says "no beers tonight", I reply "maybe I learned my lesson w/ a laugh" and her "maybe w/ a grin". I leave.

She didn't text me or anything later but I'm thinking she still has interest. So worst case if she don't hit me up ill hit it up in 4-5 days and suggest a date.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Joe Stud

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Hang in there bro, she aint quit on you yet. Good idea making a joke out of it. be patient
 
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