"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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FR: I just had a date with a girl i met on Myspace

Scorched

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Lesson learned :)
I hope I learned it from you! lol
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Mr. Delicious

Thanks for the story scorch about your friend who got stood up and one of the reasons was that her ex boyfriend stabbed her :crackup: That made me feel better about this situation. haha
Yeah man that b1tch was crazy. The 1st story was beleivable... "I got in a wreck on the way, etc.. Called me etc. But man...when she broke out with the "my ex boyfriend just showed up... I'll call you back...then calls back a few hours late saying "i can't come..he cut me with a knife..." I was like..uh yeah right. Later.

Now, a girl stands me up once... F' her. There is a plethera of Poon in this world and there is no reason to be caught up on a crazy peice of snatch.

Move forward with this, and be sure to display your dominance in any/all situations henceforth. you will prevail in the end.
 

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You don't have to give up on this chick. I mean you can still talk with her on the phone. Try to bang her I say. Just call her up when you're bored or something. That's what I'll do sometimes...just call up flaky chicks when I'm really bored and see if they're up for anything. Make her come to you of course.
 

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Originally posted by Inc. ©
You don't have to give up on this chick. I mean you can still talk with her on the phone. Try to bang her I say. Just call her up when you're bored or something. That's what I'll do sometimes...just call up flaky chicks when I'm really bored and see if they're up for anything. Make her come to you of course.
No!
 

Juan_Man

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Originally posted by Mazeman11
No!
I agree. The best thing to do is leave this girl alone. She is obviously confused. The only exception is that if the girl comes over to his house through her own efforts just for sex.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I vote for this thread to be posted to Bible as a textbook study on Modern Flake 101.
 

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That would be awesome. Then I could actually have some thats "Bible material" Even Though its not the way I wanted to get a story in the Bible. I can finally accomplish my dream:D
 

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Originally posted by Mr. Delicious
I know, I have been acting AFC with this one. Usually I dont. Usually if i get stood up one time then i am done.
I didn't figured it out from what you said you did. I figured it out from the way you write. If your AFCness shows in your writing, then I bet it also shows in the way you talk and act.
 
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