"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lesson learned :)
I hope I learned it from you! lol
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by Mr. Delicious

Thanks for the story scorch about your friend who got stood up and one of the reasons was that her ex boyfriend stabbed her :crackup: That made me feel better about this situation. haha
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Yeah man that b1tch was crazy. The 1st story was beleivable... "I got in a wreck on the way, etc.. Called me etc. But man...when she broke out with the "my ex boyfriend just showed up... I'll call you back...then calls back a few hours late saying "i can't come..he cut me with a knife..." I was like..uh yeah right. Later.

Now, a girl stands me up once... F' her. There is a plethera of Poon in this world and there is no reason to be caught up on a crazy peice of snatch.

Move forward with this, and be sure to display your dominance in any/all situations henceforth. you will prevail in the end.
 
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You don't have to give up on this chick. I mean you can still talk with her on the phone. Try to bang her I say. Just call her up when you're bored or something. That's what I'll do sometimes...just call up flaky chicks when I'm really bored and see if they're up for anything. Make her come to you of course.
 
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Originally posted by Inc. ©
You don't have to give up on this chick. I mean you can still talk with her on the phone. Try to bang her I say. Just call her up when you're bored or something. That's what I'll do sometimes...just call up flaky chicks when I'm really bored and see if they're up for anything. Make her come to you of course.
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No!
 
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Originally posted by Mazeman11
No!
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I agree. The best thing to do is leave this girl alone. She is obviously confused. The only exception is that if the girl comes over to his house through her own efforts just for sex.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I vote for this thread to be posted to Bible as a textbook study on Modern Flake 101.
 
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That would be awesome. Then I could actually have some thats "Bible material" Even Though its not the way I wanted to get a story in the Bible. I can finally accomplish my dream:D
 
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Originally posted by Mr. Delicious
I know, I have been acting AFC with this one. Usually I dont. Usually if i get stood up one time then i am done.
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I didn't figured it out from what you said you did. I figured it out from the way you write. If your AFCness shows in your writing, then I bet it also shows in the way you talk and act.
 
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