"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Fr: Got chatted up by a HB8 in Toronto

vorbis

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Not really a FR in the typical sense in that I have a gf and am not looking for someone else. This story might prove useful for others though.

Myself and two buddies were in Toronto on Saturday night. I have to say, the place is f*king amazing! The amount of hot women (especially blonds) was incredible. We went for a drink in this trendy bar and 98% of the women inside were doable. Every time the door opened, another stunner walked in.

Anyways, after the bar we went to this Falafel House nearby for food. My friend got talking to this couple and was spinning out the stories (he's traveled a lot so has lots of stories) Their friend a blond HB8 actually got up from her seat and came over to talk to me one on one.

Appearance wise, I was still wearing a big heavy coat and hadn't bothered taking my wooly cap off as I had a cold. Definitely not dressed to impress :p

I was a complete challenge though. I laughed off comments about wearing the hat and displayed no interest in her (due to gf). It actually took me a few minutes to realise she was hitting on me (doesn't happen too much).

My friend's stories seemed to count against him with this girl (she seemed to view him as a dancing monkey)

When the couple were finished eating, the blond asked me if I wanted to head off with them. Couldn't say yes to that offer :cry: so stayed with my friends.

Essentially, I could have picked up a really hot girl (I'm average myself) by displaying no interest but just being polite to her. It really drove home the idea of not focusing on the outcome.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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sav

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toronto having hot girls??? thats news to me...
 

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I think showing interest in that situation could work also since she was hitting on you. Obviously not too much.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sav

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i dunno, toronto for me is the ****TIEST city for girls in all of canada...

go anywhere else in the WORLD the clubs, lounges and bars are packed with far more pvssy and far less ****....

i can officially say toronto blows for women... i dunno where you went bro, but let me know, cuz i've lived here 14 years.. i've been everywhere in this city... and havent found a place that i would always return to....

TORONTO BLOWS...

the only attractive ones i find are at my school, through friends, and through occasional cold approaches... too much **** in this city and too little quality *****.
 
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