"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Fr: Got chatted up by a HB8 in Toronto

vorbis

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Not really a FR in the typical sense in that I have a gf and am not looking for someone else. This story might prove useful for others though.

Myself and two buddies were in Toronto on Saturday night. I have to say, the place is f*king amazing! The amount of hot women (especially blonds) was incredible. We went for a drink in this trendy bar and 98% of the women inside were doable. Every time the door opened, another stunner walked in.

Anyways, after the bar we went to this Falafel House nearby for food. My friend got talking to this couple and was spinning out the stories (he's traveled a lot so has lots of stories) Their friend a blond HB8 actually got up from her seat and came over to talk to me one on one.

Appearance wise, I was still wearing a big heavy coat and hadn't bothered taking my wooly cap off as I had a cold. Definitely not dressed to impress :p

I was a complete challenge though. I laughed off comments about wearing the hat and displayed no interest in her (due to gf). It actually took me a few minutes to realise she was hitting on me (doesn't happen too much).

My friend's stories seemed to count against him with this girl (she seemed to view him as a dancing monkey)

When the couple were finished eating, the blond asked me if I wanted to head off with them. Couldn't say yes to that offer :cry: so stayed with my friends.

Essentially, I could have picked up a really hot girl (I'm average myself) by displaying no interest but just being polite to her. It really drove home the idea of not focusing on the outcome.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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sav

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toronto having hot girls??? thats news to me...
 

moto

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I think showing interest in that situation could work also since she was hitting on you. Obviously not too much.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sav

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i dunno, toronto for me is the ****TIEST city for girls in all of canada...

go anywhere else in the WORLD the clubs, lounges and bars are packed with far more pvssy and far less ****....

i can officially say toronto blows for women... i dunno where you went bro, but let me know, cuz i've lived here 14 years.. i've been everywhere in this city... and havent found a place that i would always return to....

TORONTO BLOWS...

the only attractive ones i find are at my school, through friends, and through occasional cold approaches... too much **** in this city and too little quality *****.
 
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