BackInTheGame78
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OK, had a date last night with a solid HB 9. Hottest woman I've ever gone out with. Completely gorgeous. I think we actually forged somewhat of an emotional connection before we met and I set myself up as something different from her normal. She had some rough experiences in the past---with guys, her family life and her life experiences. Now, some might say she is "broken". Maybe she is. But I saw something else. I saw strength. Strength to keep getting up when life kept kicking her down. From what we talked about I could tell she was needing love. So I gave her what she needed when we met.
I picked her up at her house, which was about a half hour drive away. I could tell immediately that she was nervous, which was a good thing in my eyes. She even admitted it once we got to the bar. We get there and she opens a tab, without me saying a word...she is invested. I took her hands in mine, and told her to relax and don't be nervous, that we are going to have a great time together and I looked deeply into her eyes. She was giving me the puppy dog eyes. I knew I was on the right path.
The date continues, lots of kino mostly initiated by her, she started opening up to me about things that happened, I listened, didn't judge her and commented about how "that must have been rough on her", etc and she opened up even further. About 15 minutes in she was giving me "that look". So I just stopped talking, leaned in, stroked her hair and told her how soft it looked and she leaned forward and kissed me. Several times.
After moving from inside to outside and back inside to the bar and then a booth, we end up leaving and going for a walk around the downtown area of her town. There were some cool things there, held hands a good part of the time, grabbing her butt, spanked her a few times cause it was her birthday a few days priors and I promised her some birthday spankings when I saw her.
End up driving back to her place and there is a factory that makes cinnamon things and the whole area smelled like cinnamon. Walked closer to it, I picked her up in the air and she grinded on me, got back to her place, leaned on the car and she came and sat her pvssy directly on my c0ck, so I could feel its warmness as she rubbed me up and down. Unfortunately she is temporarily staying with her Mom since she just moved back to the area a few months ago and her place wasn't available, or else I likely would have banged her. Learned from the previous date that it might be wise to show sexual intent but not push too far if you don't have anywhere else other than a car as it might make you come off the wrong way...
I left and 5 minutes after she texts me "Drive safely. I hope to hear from you soon " Didn't reply.
About 2 hours ago got another text from her saying "Good afternoon! What are you doing? Did I scare you off??"
I replied about an hour later "Nope. If that was your plan you failed."
After a few brief text exchanges she says "I was going to ask you to come visit me today, but its late and you are probably busy."
Told her today and this weekend is rough but we could make something happen early next week one day and that I think she is really cool and I definitely wanted to see her again.
Felt pretty good that I analyzed the situation, responded properly, both prior to and in-date and gave her what she needed. And she is pretty into me at this point. Thanks Guru, took me a little while to calibrate but I did a much better job on this one...with a much hotter woman, no less.
My question is this Guru: She seems to need extra reassurance and might be a little needy from what I'm sensing. Do I go ghost for a few days and then hit her up like Sunday night and make plans or does she need something extra? I know you said attraction amplifies when time passes so I'm thinking I should let it go for a few days...what to do if she texts me daily in the meantime?
I picked her up at her house, which was about a half hour drive away. I could tell immediately that she was nervous, which was a good thing in my eyes. She even admitted it once we got to the bar. We get there and she opens a tab, without me saying a word...she is invested. I took her hands in mine, and told her to relax and don't be nervous, that we are going to have a great time together and I looked deeply into her eyes. She was giving me the puppy dog eyes. I knew I was on the right path.
The date continues, lots of kino mostly initiated by her, she started opening up to me about things that happened, I listened, didn't judge her and commented about how "that must have been rough on her", etc and she opened up even further. About 15 minutes in she was giving me "that look". So I just stopped talking, leaned in, stroked her hair and told her how soft it looked and she leaned forward and kissed me. Several times.
After moving from inside to outside and back inside to the bar and then a booth, we end up leaving and going for a walk around the downtown area of her town. There were some cool things there, held hands a good part of the time, grabbing her butt, spanked her a few times cause it was her birthday a few days priors and I promised her some birthday spankings when I saw her.
End up driving back to her place and there is a factory that makes cinnamon things and the whole area smelled like cinnamon. Walked closer to it, I picked her up in the air and she grinded on me, got back to her place, leaned on the car and she came and sat her pvssy directly on my c0ck, so I could feel its warmness as she rubbed me up and down. Unfortunately she is temporarily staying with her Mom since she just moved back to the area a few months ago and her place wasn't available, or else I likely would have banged her. Learned from the previous date that it might be wise to show sexual intent but not push too far if you don't have anywhere else other than a car as it might make you come off the wrong way...
I left and 5 minutes after she texts me "Drive safely. I hope to hear from you soon " Didn't reply.
About 2 hours ago got another text from her saying "Good afternoon! What are you doing? Did I scare you off??"
I replied about an hour later "Nope. If that was your plan you failed."
After a few brief text exchanges she says "I was going to ask you to come visit me today, but its late and you are probably busy."
Told her today and this weekend is rough but we could make something happen early next week one day and that I think she is really cool and I definitely wanted to see her again.
Felt pretty good that I analyzed the situation, responded properly, both prior to and in-date and gave her what she needed. And she is pretty into me at this point. Thanks Guru, took me a little while to calibrate but I did a much better job on this one...with a much hotter woman, no less.
My question is this Guru: She seems to need extra reassurance and might be a little needy from what I'm sensing. Do I go ghost for a few days and then hit her up like Sunday night and make plans or does she need something extra? I know you said attraction amplifies when time passes so I'm thinking I should let it go for a few days...what to do if she texts me daily in the meantime?