"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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FR: Freshman HB8, When to next contact?

PackDaddy

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Hey fellow DJs.

I had this one over last night. We got in comfy clothes and watched zoolander and played a drinking game to it. My roommates went in their rooms mid way through the movie. Her and I started hooking up. I fingered her and sucked on tatas, and pushed. But, she was nervous that my roommates would walk in. I assured her that wouldn't happen. But she was still afraid. Her place wasn't an option either. So we left it at that. We drove back to her dorms. We both stepped out and I gave her a kiss. Then she said she had fun and I said "yep" back with a smile.

The question is, when do I hit this one up next?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Uncharted

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Do you have each other's number? Are you both in dorms?

College game is so easy because you're on campus, there are numerous girls, and they're all ready to start hooking up.

If she has your number she will probably text you. Otherwise maybe just text her Saturday and see what she's up to. If you have plans don't cancel them for her, but if you're both free - get her alone and escalate.

Check out posts on here about LMR. Basically just withdraw from her if she stops you from escalating.
 

PackDaddy

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We have each other's numbers. I met her at a party. She was the one coming up to me and putting her hands on my sides and touching me. I'm a senior by the way.

Ok, so wait for a text and then if nothing by Saturday, hit her up.
 

Solomon

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No offense but how is this an FR?

Last time I checked an FR is how you met a girl or approached then closed the deal not the end
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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XY.

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Whenever u feel like it, big dawg
 
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