"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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FR: Freshman HB8, When to next contact?

PackDaddy

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Hey fellow DJs.

I had this one over last night. We got in comfy clothes and watched zoolander and played a drinking game to it. My roommates went in their rooms mid way through the movie. Her and I started hooking up. I fingered her and sucked on tatas, and pushed. But, she was nervous that my roommates would walk in. I assured her that wouldn't happen. But she was still afraid. Her place wasn't an option either. So we left it at that. We drove back to her dorms. We both stepped out and I gave her a kiss. Then she said she had fun and I said "yep" back with a smile.

The question is, when do I hit this one up next?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Uncharted

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Do you have each other's number? Are you both in dorms?

College game is so easy because you're on campus, there are numerous girls, and they're all ready to start hooking up.

If she has your number she will probably text you. Otherwise maybe just text her Saturday and see what she's up to. If you have plans don't cancel them for her, but if you're both free - get her alone and escalate.

Check out posts on here about LMR. Basically just withdraw from her if she stops you from escalating.
 

PackDaddy

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We have each other's numbers. I met her at a party. She was the one coming up to me and putting her hands on my sides and touching me. I'm a senior by the way.

Ok, so wait for a text and then if nothing by Saturday, hit her up.
 

Solomon

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No offense but how is this an FR?

Last time I checked an FR is how you met a girl or approached then closed the deal not the end
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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XY.

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Whenever u feel like it, big dawg
 
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