"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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FR: Freshman HB8, When to next contact?

PackDaddy

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Hey fellow DJs.

I had this one over last night. We got in comfy clothes and watched zoolander and played a drinking game to it. My roommates went in their rooms mid way through the movie. Her and I started hooking up. I fingered her and sucked on tatas, and pushed. But, she was nervous that my roommates would walk in. I assured her that wouldn't happen. But she was still afraid. Her place wasn't an option either. So we left it at that. We drove back to her dorms. We both stepped out and I gave her a kiss. Then she said she had fun and I said "yep" back with a smile.

The question is, when do I hit this one up next?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Uncharted

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Do you have each other's number? Are you both in dorms?

College game is so easy because you're on campus, there are numerous girls, and they're all ready to start hooking up.

If she has your number she will probably text you. Otherwise maybe just text her Saturday and see what she's up to. If you have plans don't cancel them for her, but if you're both free - get her alone and escalate.

Check out posts on here about LMR. Basically just withdraw from her if she stops you from escalating.
 

PackDaddy

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We have each other's numbers. I met her at a party. She was the one coming up to me and putting her hands on my sides and touching me. I'm a senior by the way.

Ok, so wait for a text and then if nothing by Saturday, hit her up.
 

Solomon

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No offense but how is this an FR?

Last time I checked an FR is how you met a girl or approached then closed the deal not the end
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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XY.

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Whenever u feel like it, big dawg
 
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