"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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FR: Freshman HB8, When to next contact?

PackDaddy

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Hey fellow DJs.

I had this one over last night. We got in comfy clothes and watched zoolander and played a drinking game to it. My roommates went in their rooms mid way through the movie. Her and I started hooking up. I fingered her and sucked on tatas, and pushed. But, she was nervous that my roommates would walk in. I assured her that wouldn't happen. But she was still afraid. Her place wasn't an option either. So we left it at that. We drove back to her dorms. We both stepped out and I gave her a kiss. Then she said she had fun and I said "yep" back with a smile.

The question is, when do I hit this one up next?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Uncharted

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Do you have each other's number? Are you both in dorms?

College game is so easy because you're on campus, there are numerous girls, and they're all ready to start hooking up.

If she has your number she will probably text you. Otherwise maybe just text her Saturday and see what she's up to. If you have plans don't cancel them for her, but if you're both free - get her alone and escalate.

Check out posts on here about LMR. Basically just withdraw from her if she stops you from escalating.
 

PackDaddy

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We have each other's numbers. I met her at a party. She was the one coming up to me and putting her hands on my sides and touching me. I'm a senior by the way.

Ok, so wait for a text and then if nothing by Saturday, hit her up.
 

Solomon

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No offense but how is this an FR?

Last time I checked an FR is how you met a girl or approached then closed the deal not the end
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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XY.

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Whenever u feel like it, big dawg
 
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