"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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FR: First successful number close.

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So I was walking down the hall and bumped into this girl Natalia. Blah blah blah, we talked and she had a hard time understanding me because I guess she wasn't good at English(She just moved here from another country recently). Anyway, yeah, we talked and eventually I got the number. Dumbest thing is, is when she finally put in the number, in excitement I put my phone in the pocket and didn't save the number, so it got deleted, which sucked. But yeah, first successful number.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yeah, but lol I atleast I got one more number of this Freshman girl though. And now that I have that... when do I call her?
 

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Seriously though.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do you sit down when you pee?


Seriously man, read the bible and get the knowledge so you don't have to ask the board how to live your life. Knowledge is power, embrace it.
 

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Thanks.
 

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lol

Call her after 2-3-4 days and tell her you were busy doing some things .

But remember for next times you ask for number , you have to invest on her/and make her invest on you .

You have to make her attracted to you .

Cuz if she's not attracted she will find 092348 excuses , she will ignore you and she'll not answer phone .

But good job . Good exercise :D.

Tell us what happens when u call her .
 

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Keep the offtopicness to a limit.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MooseGod said:
Dude everybody knows the world's gonna end in 2012 :D

This chick's not gonna be around...just ****roaches and Keith Richards :crackup:
Lol, 2012 is a myth.
Anyways, call her in a couple days
 

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lol yeah I'm thinking of calling her tommorow or Saturday. Worst she could do is flake. But may I ask, what's the difference between calling her on the same day and waiting a couple days?
 

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It shows you have other things to do, that she's not your number 1 priority...especially because you JUST met her. Thats pretty AFC to just meet a chick then right away she becomes more important to him than anything else.

Congrats on the # close.
 

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Thanks for answering that man.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well I'm going to call her tommorow, which is about 2 days. Hopefully she doesn't flake and remembers who I am(Since I didn't exactly tell her my name). If not lol who cares. When school starts back up Tuesday, I'll definitely be getting more number closes.
 

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MooseGod said:
Dude everybody knows the world's gonna end in 2012

No, it's 2037 when time() finally rolls over and the system running our simulation resets.
 

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Enough with the trolling. Reported.
 
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