So I was walking down the hall and bumped into this girl Natalia. Blah blah blah, we talked and she had a hard time understanding me because I guess she wasn't good at English(She just moved here from another country recently). Anyway, yeah, we talked and eventually I got the number. Dumbest thing is, is when she finally put in the number, in excitement I put my phone in the pocket and didn't save the number, so it got deleted, which sucked. But yeah, first successful number.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
FR: First successful number close.
- Thread starter ElStud
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
MacAvoy
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Congrats man, the good thing about making rookie mistakes like that is you learn not to make it again.
MacAvoy
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In the year 2015ElStud said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
MacAvoy
Banned
Do you sit down when you pee?
Seriously man, read the bible and get the knowledge so you don't have to ask the board how to live your life. Knowledge is power, embrace it.
Seriously man, read the bible and get the knowledge so you don't have to ask the board how to live your life. Knowledge is power, embrace it.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
lol
Call her after 2-3-4 days and tell her you were busy doing some things .
But remember for next times you ask for number , you have to invest on her/and make her invest on you .
You have to make her attracted to you .
Cuz if she's not attracted she will find 092348 excuses , she will ignore you and she'll not answer phone .
But good job . Good exercise
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Tell us what happens when u call her .
Call her after 2-3-4 days and tell her you were busy doing some things .
But remember for next times you ask for number , you have to invest on her/and make her invest on you .
You have to make her attracted to you .
Cuz if she's not attracted she will find 092348 excuses , she will ignore you and she'll not answer phone .
But good job . Good exercise
.Tell us what happens when u call her .
MooseGod
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Dude everybody knows the world's gonna end in 2012MacAvoy said:
This chick's not gonna be around...just ****roaches and Keith Richards :crackup:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
LostAndConfused
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It shows you have other things to do, that she's not your number 1 priority...especially because you JUST met her. Thats pretty AFC to just meet a chick then right away she becomes more important to him than anything else.
Congrats on the # close.
Congrats on the # close.
BarackObama
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Well young man I wish you future success in your endeavors of pursuing women. And remember to vote.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Well I'm going to call her tommorow, which is about 2 days. Hopefully she doesn't flake and remembers who I am(Since I didn't exactly tell her my name). If not lol who cares. When school starts back up Tuesday, I'll definitely be getting more number closes.
bigjohnson
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MooseGod said:
No, it's 2037 when time() finally rolls over and the system running our simulation resets.