So I was walking down the hall and bumped into this girl Natalia. Blah blah blah, we talked and she had a hard time understanding me because I guess she wasn't good at English(She just moved here from another country recently). Anyway, yeah, we talked and eventually I got the number. Dumbest thing is, is when she finally put in the number, in excitement I put my phone in the pocket and didn't save the number, so it got deleted, which sucked. But yeah, first successful number.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
FR: First successful number close.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
MacAvoy
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Congrats man, the good thing about making rookie mistakes like that is you learn not to make it again.
MacAvoy
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In the year 2015ElStud said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
MacAvoy
Banned
Do you sit down when you pee?
Seriously man, read the bible and get the knowledge so you don't have to ask the board how to live your life. Knowledge is power, embrace it.
Seriously man, read the bible and get the knowledge so you don't have to ask the board how to live your life. Knowledge is power, embrace it.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
lol
Call her after 2-3-4 days and tell her you were busy doing some things .
But remember for next times you ask for number , you have to invest on her/and make her invest on you .
You have to make her attracted to you .
Cuz if she's not attracted she will find 092348 excuses , she will ignore you and she'll not answer phone .
But good job . Good exercise
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Tell us what happens when u call her .
Call her after 2-3-4 days and tell her you were busy doing some things .
But remember for next times you ask for number , you have to invest on her/and make her invest on you .
You have to make her attracted to you .
Cuz if she's not attracted she will find 092348 excuses , she will ignore you and she'll not answer phone .
But good job . Good exercise
.Tell us what happens when u call her .
MooseGod
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Dude everybody knows the world's gonna end in 2012MacAvoy said:
This chick's not gonna be around...just ****roaches and Keith Richards :crackup:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
LostAndConfused
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It shows you have other things to do, that she's not your number 1 priority...especially because you JUST met her. Thats pretty AFC to just meet a chick then right away she becomes more important to him than anything else.
Congrats on the # close.
Congrats on the # close.
BarackObama
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Well young man I wish you future success in your endeavors of pursuing women. And remember to vote.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Well I'm going to call her tommorow, which is about 2 days. Hopefully she doesn't flake and remembers who I am(Since I didn't exactly tell her my name). If not lol who cares. When school starts back up Tuesday, I'll definitely be getting more number closes.
bigjohnson
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MooseGod said:
No, it's 2037 when time() finally rolls over and the system running our simulation resets.