"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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FR: First date from Match

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Had a first date with girl from match, she didn't want to drink so I took her for a walk by the river. She wasn't as good looking as she was in her photos so I told her she was sweet but I had to go after 30 minutes.

Called a different girl from Match that I was supposed to go on a first date with on Sunday. She is 10 years younger than me, makes triple figures, and her dad is a doctor. She agreed to meet me for drinks and suggested that I park in her alley and then walk to the pub together. Obviously I knew she had high interest level when she suggested that. Took her out about had 3 drinks each. I grabbed the tab. I played the game ask any question but you cant ask the same thing with her. The first question I asked was when was the last time you had sex.. this turned the convo sexual the rest of the night. Walk her back to her place and asked if I could chill for 30 minutes because I was buzzed and didnt want to drive home yet. Got a BJ and then left. Probably wont call her back.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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CMNILS87

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Had a first date with girl from match, she didn't want to drink so I took her for a walk by the river. She wasn't as good looking as she was in her photos so I told her she was sweet but I had to go after 30 minutes.

Called a different girl from Match that I was supposed to go on a first date with on Sunday. She is 10 years younger than me, makes triple figures, and her dad is a doctor. She agreed to meet me for drinks and suggested that I park in her alley and then walk to the pub together. Obviously I knew she had high interest level when she suggested that. Took her out about had 3 drinks each. I grabbed the tab. I played the game ask any question but you cant ask the same thing with her. The first question I asked was when was the last time you had sex.. this turned the convo sexual the rest of the night. Walk her back to her place and asked if I could chill for 30 minutes because I was buzzed and didnt want to drive home yet. Got a BJ and then left. Probably wont call her back.
You don't ask her when the last time she had sex was....,way too blunt bro
 

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good job! Keep up the good work. I would arrange another date and bang her. Just once wouldn't hurt.
 

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You don't ask her when the last time she had sex was....,way too blunt bro
Every situation is different. This chick was talking about oil and gas business financial crap that I had no interest in.. so I said lets play a game.


LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL GJ ON BJ.

How old are you OP
34 broski.

good job! Keep up the good work. I would arrange another date and bang her. Just once wouldn't hurt.
She texted me the next day while I was on a date with a new chick. I deleted her number. She is only like a 6.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Only a 6?? Soooo where exactly is the "win" here? Lol
 
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