"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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FR: First date from Match

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Had a first date with girl from match, she didn't want to drink so I took her for a walk by the river. She wasn't as good looking as she was in her photos so I told her she was sweet but I had to go after 30 minutes.

Called a different girl from Match that I was supposed to go on a first date with on Sunday. She is 10 years younger than me, makes triple figures, and her dad is a doctor. She agreed to meet me for drinks and suggested that I park in her alley and then walk to the pub together. Obviously I knew she had high interest level when she suggested that. Took her out about had 3 drinks each. I grabbed the tab. I played the game ask any question but you cant ask the same thing with her. The first question I asked was when was the last time you had sex.. this turned the convo sexual the rest of the night. Walk her back to her place and asked if I could chill for 30 minutes because I was buzzed and didnt want to drive home yet. Got a BJ and then left. Probably wont call her back.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Had a first date with girl from match, she didn't want to drink so I took her for a walk by the river. She wasn't as good looking as she was in her photos so I told her she was sweet but I had to go after 30 minutes.

Called a different girl from Match that I was supposed to go on a first date with on Sunday. She is 10 years younger than me, makes triple figures, and her dad is a doctor. She agreed to meet me for drinks and suggested that I park in her alley and then walk to the pub together. Obviously I knew she had high interest level when she suggested that. Took her out about had 3 drinks each. I grabbed the tab. I played the game ask any question but you cant ask the same thing with her. The first question I asked was when was the last time you had sex.. this turned the convo sexual the rest of the night. Walk her back to her place and asked if I could chill for 30 minutes because I was buzzed and didnt want to drive home yet. Got a BJ and then left. Probably wont call her back.
You don't ask her when the last time she had sex was....,way too blunt bro
 

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good job! Keep up the good work. I would arrange another date and bang her. Just once wouldn't hurt.
 

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You don't ask her when the last time she had sex was....,way too blunt bro
Every situation is different. This chick was talking about oil and gas business financial crap that I had no interest in.. so I said lets play a game.


LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL GJ ON BJ.

How old are you OP
34 broski.

good job! Keep up the good work. I would arrange another date and bang her. Just once wouldn't hurt.
She texted me the next day while I was on a date with a new chick. I deleted her number. She is only like a 6.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Only a 6?? Soooo where exactly is the "win" here? Lol
 
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