"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

FR: First date from Match

finality

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 2, 2016
Messages
228
Reaction score
140
Age
44
Had a first date with girl from match, she didn't want to drink so I took her for a walk by the river. She wasn't as good looking as she was in her photos so I told her she was sweet but I had to go after 30 minutes.

Called a different girl from Match that I was supposed to go on a first date with on Sunday. She is 10 years younger than me, makes triple figures, and her dad is a doctor. She agreed to meet me for drinks and suggested that I park in her alley and then walk to the pub together. Obviously I knew she had high interest level when she suggested that. Took her out about had 3 drinks each. I grabbed the tab. I played the game ask any question but you cant ask the same thing with her. The first question I asked was when was the last time you had sex.. this turned the convo sexual the rest of the night. Walk her back to her place and asked if I could chill for 30 minutes because I was buzzed and didnt want to drive home yet. Got a BJ and then left. Probably wont call her back.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

CMNILS87

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 17, 2016
Messages
902
Reaction score
662
Age
39
Had a first date with girl from match, she didn't want to drink so I took her for a walk by the river. She wasn't as good looking as she was in her photos so I told her she was sweet but I had to go after 30 minutes.

Called a different girl from Match that I was supposed to go on a first date with on Sunday. She is 10 years younger than me, makes triple figures, and her dad is a doctor. She agreed to meet me for drinks and suggested that I park in her alley and then walk to the pub together. Obviously I knew she had high interest level when she suggested that. Took her out about had 3 drinks each. I grabbed the tab. I played the game ask any question but you cant ask the same thing with her. The first question I asked was when was the last time you had sex.. this turned the convo sexual the rest of the night. Walk her back to her place and asked if I could chill for 30 minutes because I was buzzed and didnt want to drive home yet. Got a BJ and then left. Probably wont call her back.
You don't ask her when the last time she had sex was....,way too blunt bro
 

dustmuffin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 21, 2015
Messages
2,495
Reaction score
1,423
Age
63
good job! Keep up the good work. I would arrange another date and bang her. Just once wouldn't hurt.
 

finality

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 2, 2016
Messages
228
Reaction score
140
Age
44
You don't ask her when the last time she had sex was....,way too blunt bro
Every situation is different. This chick was talking about oil and gas business financial crap that I had no interest in.. so I said lets play a game.


LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL GJ ON BJ.

How old are you OP
34 broski.

good job! Keep up the good work. I would arrange another date and bang her. Just once wouldn't hurt.
She texted me the next day while I was on a date with a new chick. I deleted her number. She is only like a 6.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Joined
Sep 11, 2017
Messages
16
Reaction score
16
Age
44
Only a 6?? Soooo where exactly is the "win" here? Lol
 
Top