"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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FR: Door open, opener; that worked.

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Kinda random opener, but I found it slightly funny, but then again I am an idiot.

It was the first day of class today so I was looking for the best looking chick in the class.. Spotted a HB8 went and sat by her and started talking to her.

10 minutes later a HB9.5 walks in and sits by herself on the opposite side of the room. I gave a little EC during class, but was just slowly getting HB8 to be comfortable with me so didn't walk over there or anything. And the class started shortly after the HB9.5 walked in anyway.

After class I timed it right so HB9.5 would be walking behind me. We were the last two out. So, I opened the door for her and then this convo happened:

HB9.5: Thank you
Me: For what?
HB9.5: For holding the door for me!
Me: I know.. I was joking.. I'm stand; whats your name?
HB9.5: Jessica
HB9.5: Aren't you friends with Matt?
Me: Yeah.. How do you know him?
HB9.5: Blah blah blah...
Me: You looked lonely over there sitting by yourself
HB9.5: I was! You should sit by me next class!
Me: Maybe if you're lucky.

It was kind of a dumb opener, but it worked. I've noticed some times when I open the door for a HB and she says Thank you, I don't respond with something to engage in a conversation. It worked out pretty nicely I think.

Now, I have two chicks in one class and I have to pick one to sit by next class, lol. I'm thinking about flipping a coin.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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yeah dude, just sit next to HB8 as before leaving a spare seat on the other side of you.
When 9.5 enters later beckon her enthusiastically to sit next to you.

Introduce the two girls straight away and that's it! Now you are center of attention
 
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duke007 said:
yeah dude, just sit next to HB8 as before leaving a spare seat on the other side of you.
When 9.5 enters later beckon her enthusiastically to sit next to you.

Introduce the two girls straight away and that's it! Now you are center of attention
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I did this last semester and it worked well to start.. I would bluntly flirt with both of them & they would both get jealous & be more aggressive with me.

I am still seeing one of them - the other I crash and burned with.

I think I will try again. Hell, maybe they both will like each other too :).
 
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are u in college or university? nice opener.....i think it wasn't really what you said but how you said it/
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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moto said:
are u in college or university? nice opener.....i think it wasn't really what you said but how you said it/
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Community college.

I think it is a pretty good opener actually. I mean, most of the time I've seen guys open doors for girls after the girl says TY; they either say nothing; or something like no problem which takes the conversation no where.

I think a C/F comment after she says "For holding the door for me.." would be really smooth and good.
 
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