"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Gangster Of Love

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You are worthless. The empty wagon makes the loudest noise. What do they call it, compensation?

Not only does he attend wild sex parties in LA, and claims he didn't live there. HE knows a bar in Santa Monica , and lives in Australia? I guess that's possible. Its been done by non-almost millionaires, I'm sure.

He just figured out a way to get younger. I could swear he was 22, now he's 21. Hahaha. If he figured how to reverse age, then he is a millionaire, and I stand corrected.

Yes, it is entertaining and fun to goof on your pathetic existence. Hahaha. I like it how it gets under your skin to be called a troll.

Must be a reason.

Trolley? :yes: :yes: :yes:

Trolley, tell me when you get hungry again, I'll stop by and feed you again, my doggie.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I am not a millionaire yet, I am almost a millionaire. I am on this because on week days I have nothing better to do. I work very little, each morning I spend an hour or two writing and then I sit around the house all day watching movies and in between them I post on here.

Most of the people I know are working on weekdays or at university. So I do nto have much to do. Thursdays I do some rock climbing with a friend who has his day off university. Fridays I go to dance classes. Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday I do absolutely nothing and I like it that way. In a month or so I will be leaving for Europe then I will probably stop posting.

Oh and I first found this site 6 years ago. It helped me understand what women wanted so I come back only to find it has turned to sh*t. Full of jealous people *****ing.
 

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Good my doggie. I like it how you qualify yourself to us, constantly. We all get what we want, I guess.

You're my loyal dog I can count on.
 

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Gangster Of Love said:
You are worthless. The empty wagon makes the loudest noise. What do they call it, compensation?

Not only does he attend wild sex parties in LA, and claims he didn't live there. HE knows a bar in Santa Monica , and lives in Australia? I guess that's possible. Its been done by non-almost millionaires, I'm sure.

He just figured out a way to get younger. I could swear he was 22, now he's 21. Hahaha. If he figured how to reverse age, then he is a millionaire, and I stand corrected.

Yes, it is entertaining and fun to goof on your pathetic existence. Hahaha. I like it how it gets under your skin to be called a troll.

Must be a reason.

Trolley? :yes: :yes: :yes:

Trolley, tell me when you get hungry again, I'll stop by and feed you again, my doggie.
21 and 10 months so sometimes I say 22 sometimes 21. I never mentioned a bar in Santa Monica.... You sure do talk a lot of crap

They are not wild sex parties by the way, they are swingers parties. Google swingers parties in L.A. I am sure you will find some.

I can give specific details about Santa Monica, L.A., Manhattan, Miami and Vegas. You just keep ignoring that fact though. Answer me man how does a guy who is not rich travel all around America staying in the richest cities? Don't bother I do not want your answer.

It is so obvious you are trying to rationalize your inferiority. I make a FR: post like many men here do but just because mine says 'wealthy' and '10' in it you start an argument. I certainly did not start this whole thing you are the one that is trying to rationalize your pitiful life by provoking me.

You started this whole thing and you are 33 you are meant to be the mature one. Yet you sit here and think 'the guy is saying he makes money that means he is a liar since I do not make money anybody who does is lying'.

You know what I am going to be the bigger man here and walk away. You can win this little battle, I forfeit it is something you desperately need. I do not fit in here, I have to be average to fit in here. I have to tell stories about how sad and depressing my life is to fit in so when you and guys like you read them you can feel a little better about yourselves. You all complain about how annoying the AFC's who ask dumb questions are but that is what you live for. Id a non-afc comes along a guy who made something of himself you automatically pounce. The fact is its to late for you to make anything of yourself, so you are going to be this sad and bitter for the rest of your life.

So good luck with that I sincerely wish you all the best... actually that is bull**** I think you are worthless and a waste of space.

Anyway take your victory have a little celebration on my behalf. This will be my last post on this website. I wont even be reading your reply posts.

Have an average life! Cya
 

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Doggie, doggie!

He leaves as he registers a new screen name.

Trolley! :yes: :yes: :yes:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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