"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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FR: Dance

B-Lemond

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We had a school dance tonight. I came in with about 1hr. left in the dance, due to some studying. One of the sets went like this:


I approach a 5 set. I put my arms around two of the girls and

Me: Hey guys, can I get an opinion on something?

Girls: A what?

Me: I need your opinion on something....

Me: (I start looking at each girl as I'm pacing) Why..................do I......................look so good?

Then one of the girls leaves and 3 of them follow her. Now there are only 2 girls there to answer, HB 8.5 and HB6.

At this point HB6 doesn't know how to respond to my ****iness.

HB 8.5: Your not...

Me: What?

HB 8.5: Your....

Me: (I interrupt her) You know what, I'll just let you two think about it. (then I leave)


At the end of the dance as HB 8.5 is leaving. I approach again. (Just like Style says, give that extra 20%)


Me: Hey, let me ask you something....

Me: Why do I look so good.

HB 8.5 : blah blah blah, I don't like your hair.

Me: Isnt' that amazing, we both have something in common. I don't like yours either (and I grab her hair)


One of her friends calls her and she walks away.


I'm not sure if the opener was too ****y or what, but I honestly felt that I could have progress with HB 8.5.

I'm sensing that the only reason she said "your not" was because she had to keep her social status high. Nonetheless, she was smiling the whole time, during the second approach. She was smiling and I know she wanted me. How could I have progressed with her?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LOL you came off as way too damn ****y.

You where just plain stupid if you ask me.
 

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Too ****y
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It only takes a noob to see that you were way too ****y and over exerting yourself on these girls. You got to be confident ****y, not ****y as "I'm so great I'm better than everybody. They wish they were me!"
 

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Originally posted by bluelemond
^ Thanks newbies

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
Who you calling a noob, your the one who ended up looking like a ass
 

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Originally posted by Maybnoob
Who you calling a noob, your the one who ended up looking like a ass
i think he was calling me a noob.
 

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Originally posted by Logen
i think he was calling me a noob.
Yeah but he said newbie(s) not noob, so he implied all of us
 

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yea he came off way to dam ****y dude u cuda scored that chick but tht was prty dam classic i lyk ur stuff lol:crackup: :rockon:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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funny ass ****. i think i fuked up this post formatting too btw.
 

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^ Thanks Shezz
The only good advice on this thread.

I was going to use the jealous gf opener but I figured why not try something new.


Shezz, you mentinoed meta-frame. What is this meta-frame that you speak of.
 

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Originally posted by The_Shezzler
dont use this opener anymore mate.

I've used this opener before on girls that I already knew and they always come up with an answer. They play along with the question, so when I used this on a set that I didn't know and I got that reaction, I was little surprised...hehe
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Blue elmond, I notice that you only responded positively to comments praising your attempt.

While you showed good confidence and courage, this was quite simply one of the worst openers I have ever heard.

I just don't know what to add, mindbogglingly bad.

I felt embarrassed just reading it.

Cruise the room first and see where you are getting eye contact, then you won't have to resort to tactics that make you look like you are overcompensating for something.

You were probably 100% transparent to those girls.

However, like I said, it took balls opening that 5-set, just tone it down a little. It sounds like you were fishing for compliments, like girls do.
 
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