"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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We had a school dance tonight. I came in with about 1hr. left in the dance, due to some studying. One of the sets went like this:


I approach a 5 set. I put my arms around two of the girls and

Me: Hey guys, can I get an opinion on something?

Girls: A what?

Me: I need your opinion on something....

Me: (I start looking at each girl as I'm pacing) Why..................do I......................look so good?

Then one of the girls leaves and 3 of them follow her. Now there are only 2 girls there to answer, HB 8.5 and HB6.

At this point HB6 doesn't know how to respond to my ****iness.

HB 8.5: Your not...

Me: What?

HB 8.5: Your....

Me: (I interrupt her) You know what, I'll just let you two think about it. (then I leave)


At the end of the dance as HB 8.5 is leaving. I approach again. (Just like Style says, give that extra 20%)


Me: Hey, let me ask you something....

Me: Why do I look so good.

HB 8.5 : blah blah blah, I don't like your hair.

Me: Isnt' that amazing, we both have something in common. I don't like yours either (and I grab her hair)


One of her friends calls her and she walks away.


I'm not sure if the opener was too ****y or what, but I honestly felt that I could have progress with HB 8.5.

I'm sensing that the only reason she said "your not" was because she had to keep her social status high. Nonetheless, she was smiling the whole time, during the second approach. She was smiling and I know she wanted me. How could I have progressed with her?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LOL you came off as way too damn ****y.

You where just plain stupid if you ask me.
 
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Too ****y
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It only takes a noob to see that you were way too ****y and over exerting yourself on these girls. You got to be confident ****y, not ****y as "I'm so great I'm better than everybody. They wish they were me!"
 
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Originally posted by bluelemond
^ Thanks newbies

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
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Who you calling a noob, your the one who ended up looking like a ass
 
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Originally posted by Maybnoob
Who you calling a noob, your the one who ended up looking like a ass
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i think he was calling me a noob.
 
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Originally posted by Logen
i think he was calling me a noob.
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Yeah but he said newbie(s) not noob, so he implied all of us
 
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yea he came off way to dam ****y dude u cuda scored that chick but tht was prty dam classic i lyk ur stuff lol:crackup: :rockon:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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funny ass ****. i think i fuked up this post formatting too btw.
 
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^ Thanks Shezz
The only good advice on this thread.

I was going to use the jealous gf opener but I figured why not try something new.


Shezz, you mentinoed meta-frame. What is this meta-frame that you speak of.
 
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Originally posted by The_Shezzler
dont use this opener anymore mate.
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I've used this opener before on girls that I already knew and they always come up with an answer. They play along with the question, so when I used this on a set that I didn't know and I got that reaction, I was little surprised...hehe
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Blue elmond, I notice that you only responded positively to comments praising your attempt.

While you showed good confidence and courage, this was quite simply one of the worst openers I have ever heard.

I just don't know what to add, mindbogglingly bad.

I felt embarrassed just reading it.

Cruise the room first and see where you are getting eye contact, then you won't have to resort to tactics that make you look like you are overcompensating for something.

You were probably 100% transparent to those girls.

However, like I said, it took balls opening that 5-set, just tone it down a little. It sounds like you were fishing for compliments, like girls do.
 
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