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So after a couple weeks of stress and deciding this weekend that first thing tomorrow, I am putting in my two weeks notice, I thought to myself that I would get back at it with daygame. Got a call this morning too from a buddy at work who is one of the most important employees for our team. Tells me that he put in his two weeks on Friday and they immediately logged him off. I told him I am going to put mines in and he tells me to make sure I have all my **** from my work computer. Seems like my Karen boss really is that bad.

Get hit up by my wing and today just seemed like a decent enough day. Woke up at 8 AM and went for a nice run and then cooked myself a nice meal too while meal prepping. Now this after a couple weeks of junk food, not working out, and just falling off the wagon on all good habits I had built up. However, got ready and then went to one of the prime daygame spots but then found that it was set to rain all afternoon.

Wing and I meet up and walk around for a bit. My wing, who has become a good friend now, tells me that he too has been off the track in the past week but managed to hook this Texan blonde he met at South Beach and screw her too. Shows me the pics too and her texting him how much she loved it. My guy! As we are chatting and at a crosswalk, I see this one blonde to the side and immediately open.

Me: Hey excuse me, I was heading to the coffee shop with my friend, thought you were cute, and had to come say hi
Her: Oh hey there, thank you
Me: Based on how you look I did not expect the American accent
Her: What did you expect?
Me: Something Eastern Europe or something
Her: Okay so get this, I am actually from the midwest haha! (she was really bubbly)

It was the first approach and my first real planned daygame session in over a couple of weeks. She said she had to go and I did not pursue much. Wing said I have him fired him and he does a couple of approaches, gets rejected.

The daygame mindf*ck.

Me and @SW15 talk about this a bit but I really noticed it today, especially since it was raining. You can do daygame but you have to be so patient than with nightgame. In nightgame, you walk around and see so much quality concentrated in one place. In daygame, you can walk for 30 minutes plus and not see a thing. Plus, so many freaking girls on their phone. I saw at least 5 girls I wanted to approach and all of them were on their phone. Daygame requires so much patience compared to nightgame and almost like a lie and wait type of mentality while in nightgame, you can grind out 20 approaches in an hour easily. Wing is racking up the approaches while I hesitate and hesitate.

Moving on.

Wing and I are walking around and we see this cute blonde, I open and she has a Spanish accent and speaks to me in Spanish. My Spanish sucks (working on that now). Barely anything comes of that approach. So we keep walking around and wing spots this tall hot blonde and goes in for the approach. Approach goes on for quite a bit and wing gets the number. Tells me that things went well except she called him out when they were talking and said "do you do this to all girls?". Wing played it off well, got the digits, and then did another approach and got the digits too.

Nice work my man.

Meanwhile, your boy Jesse Pinkman walked around as usual with his wingman on fire. Wing pushes me to approach this one woman who had passed me, I thought she had a very masculine look to her and so I decide to initially not approach but then I follow her to get in front of her so I can approach. Well, she is walking fast and walks into an elevator. Not going to go that level of creep and chase her down.

Wing tells me to approach a girl that just passed her, she was cute but walking really fast. I tried to catch up to her but couldn't because she seemed to really be in a huge rush. Yet another chance for an approach missed.

Reflections.

2 whole approaches today and that's it. I could have done a lot more but I am just proud of getting back into the rhythm again after being out of daygame for a bit due to work, life, and how hectic it had all became. Definitely some lessons to take away but my nofap streak broke too in the 2 weeks as I just found myself watching more porn due to stress. Not at my best or the most confidence but so glad to get back at it.

Hopefully I share some wins with you guys, been on a dry spell lately.
 

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The daygame mindf*ck.

Me and @SW15 talk about this a bit but I really noticed it today, especially since it was raining. You can do daygame but you have to be so patient than with nightgame. In nightgame, you walk around and see so much quality concentrated in one place. In daygame, you can walk for 30 minutes plus and not see a thing. Plus, so many freaking girls on their phone. I saw at least 5 girls I wanted to approach and all of them were on their phone. Daygame requires so much patience compared to nightgame and almost like a lie and wait type of mentality while in nightgame, you can grind out 20 approaches in an hour easily. Wing is racking up the approaches while I hesitate and hesitate.

Reflections.

2 whole approaches today and that's it. I could have done a lot more but I am just proud of getting back into the rhythm again after being out of daygame for a bit due to work, life, and how hectic it had all became. Definitely some lessons to take away but my nofap streak broke too in the 2 weeks as I just found myself watching more porn due to stress. Not at my best or the most confidence but so glad to get back at it.

Hopefully I share some wins with you guys, been on a dry spell lately.
I can relate to everything that I have quoted above. I've had weekend afternoons where I've been out on Dallas walking paths for 2 hours and maybe gotten in 1-2 approaches. Sometimes the approaches aren't there for a variety. Women being on phones or using earbuds does not demonstrate an openness to an approach.

Keeping nofap going is a big thing. I'm much more successful with nofap if I am getting laid at least on a semi regular basis. I'm impressed with how well I've done with nofap since I put it into practice in my life many years ago.

Got a call this morning too from a buddy at work who is one of the most important employees for our team. Tells me that he put in his two weeks on Friday and they immediately logged him off. I told him I am going to put mines in and he tells me to make sure I have all my **** from my work computer. Seems like my Karen boss really is that bad.
Getting dismissed immediately after putting in 2 weeks notice sounds like a dream to me. You'll get more free time and relief from a toxic environment.
 

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I can relate to everything that I have quoted above. I've had weekend afternoons where I've been out on Dallas walking paths for 2 hours and maybe gotten in 1-2 approaches. Sometimes the approaches aren't there for a variety. Women being on phones or using earbuds does not demonstrate an openness to an approach.

Keeping nofap going is a big thing. I'm much more successful with nofap if I am getting laid at least on a semi regular basis. I'm impressed with how well I've done with nofap since I put it into practice in my life many years ago.
Dude, the phones is what got me. However, my wing approached women wearing airpods and he managed to get a number out of one. Really motivated me to get my sh*t together. So dry and stale of me today, going hard in my next session.

I almost want to say that daygame cannot be done anywhere close to its true potential if you aren't nofapping. I had 7 days of nofap when I started and I felt like an animal chasing after women, it was like my drive kicked into 5th gear or something.
 
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Dude, the phones is what got me. However, my wing approached women wearing airpods and he managed to get a number out of one. Really motivated me to get my sh*t together. So dry and stale of me today, going hard in my next session.

I almost want to say that daygame cannot be done anywhere close to its true potential if you aren't nofapping. I had 7 days of nofap when I started and I felt like an animal chasing after women, it was like my drive kicked into 5th gear or something.
I used to disregard nofap (just did it every 3 days) until one time I went a week in a half due to being busy and trying to hold it for my friend lol. I went to her, and she finished me off till I was basically dry lol. The next few days I felt tired af and drained like I lost my soul lol.
 

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Dude, the phones is what got me. However, my wing approached women wearing airpods and he managed to get a number out of one. Really motivated me to get my sh*t together. So dry and stale of me today, going hard in my next session.

I almost want to say that daygame cannot be done anywhere close to its true potential if you aren't nofapping. I had 7 days of nofap when I started and I felt like an animal chasing after women, it was like my drive kicked into 5th gear or something.
Nofap is a key part of daygame if you're doing daygame sober. From days 7-14 of a nofap streak, you'll be animalistic. If you go beyond 20 days on nofap, you won't be as animalistic but it's still worth doing. Always do nofap and no porn.

There are pickup guys who have methods for approaching women who use earbuds. AG Hayden has a method I've learned about for getting around the earbud problem. I've never implemented it but am aware of it.
 

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Nofap is a key part of daygame if you're doing daygame sober. From days 7-14 of a nofap streak, you'll be animalistic. If you go beyond 20 days on nofap, you won't be as animalistic but it's still worth doing. Always do nofap and no porn.

There are pickup guys who have methods for approaching women who use earbuds. AG Hayden has a method I've learned about for getting around the earbud problem. I've never implemented it but am aware of it.
Okay so diminishing returns after 2 weeks that makes sense. TBH, longest I have been able to go is like 10 days. Day 3 was the most miserable and day 7 the most fun. I think it is a matter of just finding something else to do so you resist the temptation there.
 

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I want my cut, Jesse. 20%
 

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Okay so diminishing returns after 2 weeks that makes sense. TBH, longest I have been able to go is like 10 days. Day 3 was the most miserable and day 7 the most fun. I think it is a matter of just finding something else to do so you resist the temptation there.
Most things you can do are better than porn and masturbating. Swiping isn't one of them. The swipe apps are a shiit show.
 

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Night game sometimes the best move is to relax, let alcohol do it's work, let everyone else get rejected and then work the last hour.

One of my favorites is to just relax at the bar with a drink and wait for hot chicks to come by you, watch as dudes get rejected and then crack jokes about it like "Damn, I think you might have made him cry...I thought I saw a tear drop running down his cheek as he walked away" and start laughing...

Easiest ice break ever and now you've positioned yourself as the cool, chill fun guy that isn't immediately hitting on her.

More guys should try it, it works like magic.
 

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Good work the rush you get from a successful cold approach is similar to winning bet on a roulette table
 

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Night game sometimes the best move is to relax, let alcohol do it's work, let everyone else get rejected and then work the last hour.

One of my favorites is to just relax at the bar with a drink and wait for hot chicks to come by you, watch as dudes get rejected and then crack jokes about it like "Damn, I think you might have made him cry...I thought I saw a tear drop running down his cheek as he walked away" and start laughing...

Easiest ice break ever and now you've positioned yourself as the cool, chill fun guy that isn't immediately hitting on her.

More guys should try it, it works like magic.
There is a venue in Miami that is one of the best outdoor bars I have been to. My wing and I no longer approach, we just sit at the picnic type of tables and have groups come sit at our table. It leads to a lot of easy conversations man.
 

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There is a venue in Miami that is one of the best outdoor bars I have been to. My wing and I no longer approach, we just sit at the picnic type of tables and have groups come sit at our table. It leads to a lot of easy conversations man.
Same general idea...best part about that is that when others join you at a table they will feel the need to introduce themselves or talk since they are coming into your space
 
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