“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
FR: At the gym
- Thread starter Broham
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Broham
Senior Don Juan
Seth- Thanks man. I too think I'm about 90% there but still haven't found the remaining pieces to the puzzle. Those pieces being closing the right away, and as Blitz said, creating empathy.
BigMike- I'm game for a Boston DJ get-together. I actually posted about this in the wingman forum. I've always believed in power in numbers, and if we brought our experiences together we'd be upstoppable!
Broham
Senior Don Juan
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
tmpgstx
Master Don Juan
Also, when you asked that girl about having sex with what guy at the gym - she doesn't know you well enough yet for you to ask something like this IMO. It comes off as a 'player' type and just interested in sex if ya get my drift.
Excellent post by Blitz,Originally posted by xblitz44x
Broham,
I respect the way you perceive each situation as an opportunity, and how you charge through your fear to approach, that is awesome. You are about 300 steps above a lot of people here.
Your problem is that you're TOO comfortable and seem to ignore her comfort level. When you reach the level you're at, and you're able to approach, start and sustain a conversation, and close...your next step is EMPATHY.
Empathy is understanding and considering another's situation or state. Put yourself in her shoes and imagine if a "strange" guy asked you in the first 10 minutes who you'd like to have sex with. It is extremely intrusive to some and you have to be aware of that.
Before you approach, put yourself in her shoes and think of how you can put HER more at ease so that she can more comfortable thus responsive to your advances.
Those two girls may very well have found you attractive, but your abrasive manner was a threat to them.
Great progress though, congrats.
Blitz
This is what I was looking for, this explains my awesome success!
Thanks Blitz!
Broham
Senior Don Juan
Good point man. I think girls would rather have a player than a pvssy though.Originally posted by tmpgstx
Also, when you asked that girl about having sex with what guy at the gym - she doesn't know you well enough yet for you to ask something like this IMO. It comes off as a 'player' type and just interested in sex if ya get my drift.
Broham
Senior Don Juan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
*takes some serious notes*Originally posted by Broham
B: Occasionally!? and I thought you were a fun girl!
H: Well, uhh....
B: Hey, I'm sure scrabble can be fun.
H: hahaha
B: Ok, let's do this. here's my #. let's plan on meeting up at starbucks on Wed at 7:30. ***If you can't make it, give me a call.***
ha, there is such a thing as being too smooth.Originally posted by xblitz44x
Broham,
Your problem is that you're TOO comfortable
*shakes head*
One day man One day