"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
FR: Approached a set at lunch.
- Thread starter ElStud
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I believe there's a two second rule that people follow, be spontaneous.
You were a man on a mission. Act like one.
2. If they want you to leave, leave.
You don't need them, make sure they know it.
3. They had you wrapped around their finger.
If they tell you to do something, you shouldn't always do it.
Considering the vibe, you shouldn't have done it.
You were their monkey for entertainment.
4. Escalate things, baby!
She she was a stripper, ask her to strip for you!
Stick a dollar down her pants, whatever!
My man Bvbidd, continues with the bad advice. Alkali's post was actually good, but I disagree that you shouldn't leave just because they want you to. That's being reactive. If you leave cause you want to leave great, but leaving because they asked you to is bad.Bvbidd said:Viper we already gave you feedback, you just reposted because you can't handle it.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Stalker logic.ElStud said:I disagree that you shouldn't leave just because they want you to. That's being reactive. If you leave cause you want to leave great, but leaving because they asked you to is bad.
Dude, you're a joke.ElStud said:My man Bvbidd, continues with the bad advice. Alkali's post was actually good, but I disagree that you shouldn't leave just because they want you to. That's being reactive. If you leave cause you want to leave great, but leaving because they asked you to is bad.
So what if it's reactive? If they're not interested then you move on. By staying you're pretty much saying 'i've not got anyone else to talk to, even though it's clear you don't want me here'. Sure, it seems like you had a laugh after, although it seemed more like you were their performing monkey than a man on a pick up.
I still can't get my head around why you post UNSUCESSFUL approaches just to critique our advice, saying we're wrong.
Clearly your answers AREN'T right and you need to change your close-minded thinking. This 'approach' proves you've still not learnt any lessons. If you think i'm wrong can you please demonstrate what you think you did correctly in this FR.
An unsuccessful approach must be when they're giving me tons of interest. And I need to demonstrate nothing to you.dav22 said:Dude, you're a joke.
So what if it's reactive? If they're not interested then you move on. By staying you're pretty much saying 'i've not got anyone else to talk to, even though it's clear you don't want me here'. Sure, it seems like you had a laugh after, although it seemed more like you were their performing monkey than a man on a pick up.
I still can't get my head around why you post UNSUCESSFUL approaches just to critique our advice, saying we're wrong.
Clearly your answers AREN'T right and you need to change your close-minded thinking. This 'approach' proves you've still not learnt any lessons. If you think i'm wrong can you please demonstrate what you think you did correctly in this FR.
So you somehow already gave me feedback on a new approach? Yeah, you are an idiot.Viper we already gave you feedback, you just reposted because you can't handle it.
Actually an unsuccessful approach is one that doesn't lead to a close.An unsuccessful approach must be when they're giving me tons of interest. And I need to demonstrate nothing to you.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
It's called being polite. If they were ACTUALLY interested they would indicate they want to talk to you in the future - eg. with a number close or arrange a meet up.ElStud said:An unsuccessful approach must be when they're giving me tons of interest. And I need to demonstrate nothing to you.