"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
FR: Approached a set at lunch.
- Thread starter ElStud
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I believe there's a two second rule that people follow, be spontaneous.
You were a man on a mission. Act like one.
2. If they want you to leave, leave.
You don't need them, make sure they know it.
3. They had you wrapped around their finger.
If they tell you to do something, you shouldn't always do it.
Considering the vibe, you shouldn't have done it.
You were their monkey for entertainment.
4. Escalate things, baby!
She she was a stripper, ask her to strip for you!
Stick a dollar down her pants, whatever!
My man Bvbidd, continues with the bad advice. Alkali's post was actually good, but I disagree that you shouldn't leave just because they want you to. That's being reactive. If you leave cause you want to leave great, but leaving because they asked you to is bad.Bvbidd said:Viper we already gave you feedback, you just reposted because you can't handle it.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Stalker logic.ElStud said:I disagree that you shouldn't leave just because they want you to. That's being reactive. If you leave cause you want to leave great, but leaving because they asked you to is bad.
Dude, you're a joke.ElStud said:My man Bvbidd, continues with the bad advice. Alkali's post was actually good, but I disagree that you shouldn't leave just because they want you to. That's being reactive. If you leave cause you want to leave great, but leaving because they asked you to is bad.
So what if it's reactive? If they're not interested then you move on. By staying you're pretty much saying 'i've not got anyone else to talk to, even though it's clear you don't want me here'. Sure, it seems like you had a laugh after, although it seemed more like you were their performing monkey than a man on a pick up.
I still can't get my head around why you post UNSUCESSFUL approaches just to critique our advice, saying we're wrong.
Clearly your answers AREN'T right and you need to change your close-minded thinking. This 'approach' proves you've still not learnt any lessons. If you think i'm wrong can you please demonstrate what you think you did correctly in this FR.
An unsuccessful approach must be when they're giving me tons of interest. And I need to demonstrate nothing to you.dav22 said:Dude, you're a joke.
So what if it's reactive? If they're not interested then you move on. By staying you're pretty much saying 'i've not got anyone else to talk to, even though it's clear you don't want me here'. Sure, it seems like you had a laugh after, although it seemed more like you were their performing monkey than a man on a pick up.
I still can't get my head around why you post UNSUCESSFUL approaches just to critique our advice, saying we're wrong.
Clearly your answers AREN'T right and you need to change your close-minded thinking. This 'approach' proves you've still not learnt any lessons. If you think i'm wrong can you please demonstrate what you think you did correctly in this FR.
So you somehow already gave me feedback on a new approach? Yeah, you are an idiot.Viper we already gave you feedback, you just reposted because you can't handle it.
Actually an unsuccessful approach is one that doesn't lead to a close.An unsuccessful approach must be when they're giving me tons of interest. And I need to demonstrate nothing to you.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
It's called being polite. If they were ACTUALLY interested they would indicate they want to talk to you in the future - eg. with a number close or arrange a meet up.ElStud said:An unsuccessful approach must be when they're giving me tons of interest. And I need to demonstrate nothing to you.