Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
You need a muzzle. I know a good animal shelter too.superchill89 said:
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
FR: Approached a few sets at lunch.
- Thread starter ElStud
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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jesus christ people. stop replying to him.
he asked for imput and rejects them. just stop replying to him.
i challenge everyone to make every one of his threads die with at most 3 posts.
he asked for imput and rejects them. just stop replying to him.
i challenge everyone to make every one of his threads die with at most 3 posts.
And, I've got several FR's that says that I'm atleast DOING something and improving. Most of the guys who give advice on here don't have one single FR and a lot of guys giving advice here, are clearly fake because they give advice and then make a thread whining about their girl problems.Bvbidd said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Most people don't post their daily interactions with the opposite sex on a message board and proclaim they are doing something successful. They're not.. they are just talking. Not to mention you post creepy interactions which I wouldn't think you would want other people knowing about. If you think your improving you got A LONG road ahead of ya.
Wrong, most people giving advice here NEVER post ANY interactions with opposite sex, but then give advice like they know what game is all about. You're similar to this, you've got a bunch of threads giving advice to other dudes, but where's your proof? Nowhere to be found. Haha, yes, I'm improving but since you like to judge by "words, words, words" and not actual interest level, you don't think I'm improving.Bvbidd said:
That's the point, people who actually talk regulary to people do not find the need to post FRs. We wouldn't obviously remember every sentence either.
The only point of an FR I see, is if you want to brag about getting laid.
The only point of an FR I see, is if you want to brag about getting laid.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
smooth guy
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You're posting on a ****ing message board of course it is words words words. Unless you expect to see homemade porn videos with our girlfriends.
If you aren't willing to take any advice because all you see is text and you see no "proof" then just don't ASK for it in the first place. You have some serious personality issues and I can tell that just by seeing the stuff you write on the internet. No surprise you're struggling to make friends and get a girl to talk to you.
Wanna see proof of my success because I'm replying to this topic? Well **** you. I don't feel I have to proof something to a helpless person over the internet. I can tell you that I am a very social person with lots of social proof who does interact with girls on a daily basis, and yes has a girlfriend. Sorry for not feeling the need to brag about it
And no I haven't got laid yet.. I posted nothing about sex though, I gave you just the BASICS to improve, yet you disregard it just because it wasn't the answer you were looking for.
My advice is above and I advise you to take it seriously. You might not need social proof now at the age of 17 desperately, but you're gonna have a hard time having a fulfilling life when you're older without it. Life isn't just about pulling girls, you need to get your other **** together FIRST. I'm done with giving advice to you, take it or leave it. Keep approaching girls insulting them or being needy joining their group and making conversation because you have no one to hangout with on lunch breaks thinking you're going on about it the right way. Good luck my friend.
If you aren't willing to take any advice because all you see is text and you see no "proof" then just don't ASK for it in the first place. You have some serious personality issues and I can tell that just by seeing the stuff you write on the internet. No surprise you're struggling to make friends and get a girl to talk to you.
Wanna see proof of my success because I'm replying to this topic? Well **** you. I don't feel I have to proof something to a helpless person over the internet. I can tell you that I am a very social person with lots of social proof who does interact with girls on a daily basis, and yes has a girlfriend. Sorry for not feeling the need to brag about it
And no I haven't got laid yet.. I posted nothing about sex though, I gave you just the BASICS to improve, yet you disregard it just because it wasn't the answer you were looking for.My advice is above and I advise you to take it seriously. You might not need social proof now at the age of 17 desperately, but you're gonna have a hard time having a fulfilling life when you're older without it. Life isn't just about pulling girls, you need to get your other **** together FIRST. I'm done with giving advice to you, take it or leave it. Keep approaching girls insulting them or being needy joining their group and making conversation because you have no one to hangout with on lunch breaks thinking you're going on about it the right way. Good luck my friend.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Tell me Dav and tell me Real, what makes you guys think you're so big? You're obvious not as good at getting women as you make yourselfs to be. Neither of you have anything threads and you both have less than a hundred posts, but feel the right to act superior to everyone on the board.
If you can find a post where i've said i'm good at getting women i'll give you a cookie. I have no interest in showing off or posting about my interactions because it doesn't help me, but i'm still willing to give advice where people ask for it (eg. HERE).ElStud said:
Also you're failing to realise it's not how sucessful you are, it's how good you are at improving and finding where you went wrong. Something you're seemingly incapable of, that is unless you're just doing these posts for a laugh (which is probably sadder than this site could ever help you recover from).
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.