Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
You need a muzzle. I know a good animal shelter too.superchill89 said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
FR: Approached a few sets at lunch.
- Thread starter ElStud
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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jesus christ people. stop replying to him.
he asked for imput and rejects them. just stop replying to him.
i challenge everyone to make every one of his threads die with at most 3 posts.
he asked for imput and rejects them. just stop replying to him.
i challenge everyone to make every one of his threads die with at most 3 posts.
And, I've got several FR's that says that I'm atleast DOING something and improving. Most of the guys who give advice on here don't have one single FR and a lot of guys giving advice here, are clearly fake because they give advice and then make a thread whining about their girl problems.Bvbidd said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Most people don't post their daily interactions with the opposite sex on a message board and proclaim they are doing something successful. They're not.. they are just talking. Not to mention you post creepy interactions which I wouldn't think you would want other people knowing about. If you think your improving you got A LONG road ahead of ya.
Wrong, most people giving advice here NEVER post ANY interactions with opposite sex, but then give advice like they know what game is all about. You're similar to this, you've got a bunch of threads giving advice to other dudes, but where's your proof? Nowhere to be found. Haha, yes, I'm improving but since you like to judge by "words, words, words" and not actual interest level, you don't think I'm improving.Bvbidd said:
That's the point, people who actually talk regulary to people do not find the need to post FRs. We wouldn't obviously remember every sentence either.
The only point of an FR I see, is if you want to brag about getting laid.
The only point of an FR I see, is if you want to brag about getting laid.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
smooth guy
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You're posting on a ****ing message board of course it is words words words. Unless you expect to see homemade porn videos with our girlfriends.
If you aren't willing to take any advice because all you see is text and you see no "proof" then just don't ASK for it in the first place. You have some serious personality issues and I can tell that just by seeing the stuff you write on the internet. No surprise you're struggling to make friends and get a girl to talk to you.
Wanna see proof of my success because I'm replying to this topic? Well **** you. I don't feel I have to proof something to a helpless person over the internet. I can tell you that I am a very social person with lots of social proof who does interact with girls on a daily basis, and yes has a girlfriend. Sorry for not feeling the need to brag about it
And no I haven't got laid yet.. I posted nothing about sex though, I gave you just the BASICS to improve, yet you disregard it just because it wasn't the answer you were looking for.
My advice is above and I advise you to take it seriously. You might not need social proof now at the age of 17 desperately, but you're gonna have a hard time having a fulfilling life when you're older without it. Life isn't just about pulling girls, you need to get your other **** together FIRST. I'm done with giving advice to you, take it or leave it. Keep approaching girls insulting them or being needy joining their group and making conversation because you have no one to hangout with on lunch breaks thinking you're going on about it the right way. Good luck my friend.
If you aren't willing to take any advice because all you see is text and you see no "proof" then just don't ASK for it in the first place. You have some serious personality issues and I can tell that just by seeing the stuff you write on the internet. No surprise you're struggling to make friends and get a girl to talk to you.
Wanna see proof of my success because I'm replying to this topic? Well **** you. I don't feel I have to proof something to a helpless person over the internet. I can tell you that I am a very social person with lots of social proof who does interact with girls on a daily basis, and yes has a girlfriend. Sorry for not feeling the need to brag about it
And no I haven't got laid yet.. I posted nothing about sex though, I gave you just the BASICS to improve, yet you disregard it just because it wasn't the answer you were looking for.My advice is above and I advise you to take it seriously. You might not need social proof now at the age of 17 desperately, but you're gonna have a hard time having a fulfilling life when you're older without it. Life isn't just about pulling girls, you need to get your other **** together FIRST. I'm done with giving advice to you, take it or leave it. Keep approaching girls insulting them or being needy joining their group and making conversation because you have no one to hangout with on lunch breaks thinking you're going on about it the right way. Good luck my friend.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Tell me Dav and tell me Real, what makes you guys think you're so big? You're obvious not as good at getting women as you make yourselfs to be. Neither of you have anything threads and you both have less than a hundred posts, but feel the right to act superior to everyone on the board.
If you can find a post where i've said i'm good at getting women i'll give you a cookie. I have no interest in showing off or posting about my interactions because it doesn't help me, but i'm still willing to give advice where people ask for it (eg. HERE).ElStud said:
Also you're failing to realise it's not how sucessful you are, it's how good you are at improving and finding where you went wrong. Something you're seemingly incapable of, that is unless you're just doing these posts for a laugh (which is probably sadder than this site could ever help you recover from).
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.