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Met up with another new chick today...crossfit chick and she was in shape and kinda muscular, which I find really attractive for whatever reason...tight little body, tight butt, tattoos...she was kinda reserved at first but convo started flowing and we both had waters, lol...as usual, the date went well...
This is for guys who have trouble in date---
Here is my pattern: I follow this without fail on every date and the result is exactly the same every date...only exception is sometimes the woman is all over me before we play darts.
1) Find a really cool place with good atmosphere and vibe, and take EVERY first date there. Make sure it has a dart board. Bar Louie is a fantastic place if you have one nearby. The reason I take all my first dates here are twofold---first, I know the place and am very comfortable here---it has a great first date vibe, cool, chill, fun, and every woman I've taken there has loved it and most comment on what a great place it is. Second the waitresses/bartenders help your game tremendously---they KNOW me...in fact, I've got a few waitresses/bartenders interested enough in me they probably want to fvck me because they have seen me bring a LOT of women through there and I'm making out with all of them. A lot of times they will stop by and be like "Oh, hey again!" and then tell my date "You gotta watch out for this guy, he is a lady's man!" and laugh...then the dates want to know what they mean---hahaha...I laugh it off and say nothing, that I've been here a few times before...I've had a few of the waitresses ask me how many of the women I've brought in have I slept with, and I laugh and they are like "Yeah, probably a lot of them" and I ask why they think that and they say "well, obviously you know what you are doing with women." I basically had one of them pretty much asking me to fvck her, and I told her I can't...I cannot have any drama at this place, its a huge part of my first date success...
2) I grab a booth, preferably out of the way in the corner and wait for them to get there. When they text me they've arrived, I let them know where to come find me...I do not go to them. Early tonesetter. I give them a hug and tell them it's nice to meet them then we sit down and shoot the breeze for 5 minutes or so, and I ask them what they want to drink...
3) I go grab their drink and come back to the booth. Sometimes they follow me up and stand very close to me and start touching me...that's when I know it is on with no effort on my part.
4) Come back sit down, talk for about 10-15 minutes, ask them what they did today before they met me out, I lean back and chill with a very open posture...tease them a little, then I'll "notice" their earrings, necklaces, rings, bracelets, etc and start touching them and asking what the story is with them. Another early tonesetter---I am not afraid or shy to make contact.
5) I ask them how competitive they are and whatever they say I turn it into "Awesome, let's go play some darts!".
6) While playing darts I start infringing on their space more and more as the game goes on. If they are winning I start "distracting" them...I stroke their hair, I rub their shoulders, I smell their neck, I whisper in their ear how good they smell, I put my hand right above their butt on the small of their back...I tell them "I'm not shy" and laugh about it...and they tell me "I can tell!" and laugh...sometimes I kiss them while playing darts, sometimes we just keep flirting heavily, sometimes I get nothing from them. I don't care...I continue on my course of action undeterred by any lack of IOI's---THEY DON'T MATTER!!! Read this again! IOI's DO NOT MATTER!!
As long as the woman isn't actively moving away, telling you to stop or something similar, she is enjoying it. If you stop because you are getting no IOI's you are going to lose out on 50% of the woman you could have closed if you just would have continued on your course of action.
7) After playing darts, I tell them "C'mon let's go back and sit down." About half the time the woman will ask me if I want another drink and will buy it for me. This is her investing something in me and I know it's on at that point if I didn't already.
8) We go back and sit down. I slide over close to her in the booth with our knees touching. I put my hand on her knee and start rubbing it up and down. 'll lean back and just talk normally like its no big deal while doing it. I'll start stroking her hair again, take her hands and rub them...basically I DO ANYTHING I WANT WITHOUT ASKING PERMISSION AND WITHOUT BREAKING CONVERSATION. I just continue to converse normally while doing it like its completely normal.
At some point our eyes usually lock and she will just come over and kiss me. If not I grab her head and kiss her...she always reciprocates. I start running my fingers through her hair while kissing her and then start pulling gently then more forcefully...they usually love it. We will make out a few more times before leaving, during one of these later interactions I take her hand and put it directly on my hard c0ck...once that happens and they start rubbing it, they usually go fvcking crazy, getting turned on and breathing heavy. If they go for this, I immediately suggest we leave and go somewhere where we can continue this in private. Sometimes they go for it and we go and fvck. Sometimes they resist and I say no big deal, let's just go get some fresh air.
9) Once we leave I take their hand...at some point I stop them near a wall by the walkway and start kissing them again...they usually get really into it, then I take both her hands, pick them up over her head and push her forcefully but gently against the wall and pin her hands above her head while kissing her. They go fvcking crazy at the display of dominance...passionately kissing and rubbing their pvssies up against you...again I ask them if they want to continue this in private...sometimes they say yes at this point and we go straight to fvck. If they still resist I laugh it off and just keep kissing them. Sometimes I ask them if they are going to submit to me...sometimes they say "Yes" other times they will be like "I guess you'll just have to find out" and keep kissing me....
10) After this I walk them to their car where we make out again, I whisper in their ear how fvcking sexy they are and grab their butt, a lot of times they will be grabbing my butt, d!ck, etc...and they will tell me they'll talk to me soon...almost always get a text within 15-20 minutes of leaving from them saying how much they enjoyed seeing me and that they look forward to meeting again.
For guys having trouble on dates, follow this outline until you get to the point where you are confident enough to do whatever you want in date, which is where my success skyrocketed...
This is for guys who have trouble in date---
Here is my pattern: I follow this without fail on every date and the result is exactly the same every date...only exception is sometimes the woman is all over me before we play darts.
1) Find a really cool place with good atmosphere and vibe, and take EVERY first date there. Make sure it has a dart board. Bar Louie is a fantastic place if you have one nearby. The reason I take all my first dates here are twofold---first, I know the place and am very comfortable here---it has a great first date vibe, cool, chill, fun, and every woman I've taken there has loved it and most comment on what a great place it is. Second the waitresses/bartenders help your game tremendously---they KNOW me...in fact, I've got a few waitresses/bartenders interested enough in me they probably want to fvck me because they have seen me bring a LOT of women through there and I'm making out with all of them. A lot of times they will stop by and be like "Oh, hey again!" and then tell my date "You gotta watch out for this guy, he is a lady's man!" and laugh...then the dates want to know what they mean---hahaha...I laugh it off and say nothing, that I've been here a few times before...I've had a few of the waitresses ask me how many of the women I've brought in have I slept with, and I laugh and they are like "Yeah, probably a lot of them" and I ask why they think that and they say "well, obviously you know what you are doing with women." I basically had one of them pretty much asking me to fvck her, and I told her I can't...I cannot have any drama at this place, its a huge part of my first date success...
2) I grab a booth, preferably out of the way in the corner and wait for them to get there. When they text me they've arrived, I let them know where to come find me...I do not go to them. Early tonesetter. I give them a hug and tell them it's nice to meet them then we sit down and shoot the breeze for 5 minutes or so, and I ask them what they want to drink...
3) I go grab their drink and come back to the booth. Sometimes they follow me up and stand very close to me and start touching me...that's when I know it is on with no effort on my part.
4) Come back sit down, talk for about 10-15 minutes, ask them what they did today before they met me out, I lean back and chill with a very open posture...tease them a little, then I'll "notice" their earrings, necklaces, rings, bracelets, etc and start touching them and asking what the story is with them. Another early tonesetter---I am not afraid or shy to make contact.
5) I ask them how competitive they are and whatever they say I turn it into "Awesome, let's go play some darts!".
6) While playing darts I start infringing on their space more and more as the game goes on. If they are winning I start "distracting" them...I stroke their hair, I rub their shoulders, I smell their neck, I whisper in their ear how good they smell, I put my hand right above their butt on the small of their back...I tell them "I'm not shy" and laugh about it...and they tell me "I can tell!" and laugh...sometimes I kiss them while playing darts, sometimes we just keep flirting heavily, sometimes I get nothing from them. I don't care...I continue on my course of action undeterred by any lack of IOI's---THEY DON'T MATTER!!! Read this again! IOI's DO NOT MATTER!!
As long as the woman isn't actively moving away, telling you to stop or something similar, she is enjoying it. If you stop because you are getting no IOI's you are going to lose out on 50% of the woman you could have closed if you just would have continued on your course of action.
7) After playing darts, I tell them "C'mon let's go back and sit down." About half the time the woman will ask me if I want another drink and will buy it for me. This is her investing something in me and I know it's on at that point if I didn't already.
8) We go back and sit down. I slide over close to her in the booth with our knees touching. I put my hand on her knee and start rubbing it up and down. 'll lean back and just talk normally like its no big deal while doing it. I'll start stroking her hair again, take her hands and rub them...basically I DO ANYTHING I WANT WITHOUT ASKING PERMISSION AND WITHOUT BREAKING CONVERSATION. I just continue to converse normally while doing it like its completely normal.
At some point our eyes usually lock and she will just come over and kiss me. If not I grab her head and kiss her...she always reciprocates. I start running my fingers through her hair while kissing her and then start pulling gently then more forcefully...they usually love it. We will make out a few more times before leaving, during one of these later interactions I take her hand and put it directly on my hard c0ck...once that happens and they start rubbing it, they usually go fvcking crazy, getting turned on and breathing heavy. If they go for this, I immediately suggest we leave and go somewhere where we can continue this in private. Sometimes they go for it and we go and fvck. Sometimes they resist and I say no big deal, let's just go get some fresh air.
9) Once we leave I take their hand...at some point I stop them near a wall by the walkway and start kissing them again...they usually get really into it, then I take both her hands, pick them up over her head and push her forcefully but gently against the wall and pin her hands above her head while kissing her. They go fvcking crazy at the display of dominance...passionately kissing and rubbing their pvssies up against you...again I ask them if they want to continue this in private...sometimes they say yes at this point and we go straight to fvck. If they still resist I laugh it off and just keep kissing them. Sometimes I ask them if they are going to submit to me...sometimes they say "Yes" other times they will be like "I guess you'll just have to find out" and keep kissing me....
10) After this I walk them to their car where we make out again, I whisper in their ear how fvcking sexy they are and grab their butt, a lot of times they will be grabbing my butt, d!ck, etc...and they will tell me they'll talk to me soon...almost always get a text within 15-20 minutes of leaving from them saying how much they enjoyed seeing me and that they look forward to meeting again.
For guys having trouble on dates, follow this outline until you get to the point where you are confident enough to do whatever you want in date, which is where my success skyrocketed...