Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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FR: A track meet approach.

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So I was just walking around during the track meet and I see these 2 girls. Blah blah, I opened and one of the girls seemed immediately interested. I qualified the one girl by telling her "Ah, you have the same name as my sister I like you more" and the other girl is constantly trying to get in on the in action. At one point I put my arm around that girl and she returned the kino by putting her hand on my back. Other than that, most convo was fluff. Eventually I hugged her and ended the convo.

Talked to her later again, introducing her to my friends and I basically have another fluff convo with this girl. Eventually she had to leave to run the two mile and I said bye.

Something random that happened was these girls randomly coming up to me and giving me a piece of starburst. Then I'm like "So what is this my birthday present or something?" and one of them is like "Yeah".

I could've definitely closed this set, but didn't.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MikeYikes122 said:
Do you ever actually run during these track meets?
no way man hes too busy running his A game on those track chicks!!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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MikeYikes122 said:
Do you ever actually run during these track meets?
ROFL!!!!!!!!!!!! you know thats probobly the best question he has ever been asked. You just made my day buddy.
 

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ElStud said:
So I was just walking around during the track meet and I see these 2 girls. Blah blah, I opened and one of the girls seemed immediately interested. I qualified the one girl by telling her "Ah, you have the same name as my sister I like you more" and the other girl is constantly trying to get in on the in action. At one point I put my arm around that girl and she returned the kino by putting her hand on my back. Other than that, most convo was fluff. Eventually I hugged her and ended the convo.

Talked to her later again, introducing her to my friends and I basically have another fluff convo with this girl. Eventually she had to leave to run the two mile and I said bye.

Something random that happened was these girls randomly coming up to me and giving me a piece of starburst. Then I'm like "So what is this my birthday present or something?" and one of them is like "Yeah".

I could've definitely closed this set, but didn't.
Elstud what do you do evenings/weekends? I think you need to get out and start interacting with PEOPLE at other places than school. It'll help your 'school game' immensly too.
 

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ElStud said:
I could've definitely closed this set, but didn't.
sad story.

Should have asked them if they wanted to play rock band with you and check out your drumstick.
 

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Should have asked them if they wanted to play rock band with you and check out your drumstick.
LOL

This forums turning in a joke, quite literally.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Haha, keep coming with the funny comments guys. This is a prime example of how this forum has gone to hell and is no longer about seduction, but spamming, making jokes and hating on the guys getting success, while you guys stay home and don't do sh*t.
 

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Elstud, I tried to PM & email this to you but it wouldn't let me.

I'm not sure if you've noticed but I've spent the past week & a half trying to defend you & get guys off your back. Now for the most part, they are not going to disappear but they've seem to stop yelling & name calling. They have however resorted to mocking you via picks but at least they are not flame baiting you anymore.

However I'm starting to see that your not helping the situation. Your trying to incite them into more flame wars again with this post:

ElStud said:
Haha, keep coming with the funny comments guys. This is a prime example of how this forum has gone to hell and is no longer about seduction, but spamming, making jokes and hating on the guys getting success, while you guys stay home and don't do sh*t.
If you truly are looking to improve, stop wasting your energy arguing when its not going to help you improve. Simply ignore the haters and only respond to the advice you are given.

Right now your on the path to becoming on equal level with iqqi. However the reason why she isn't banned is because she actually gives good advice at times. I can't say the same for you. The reason I'm telling you this is because I'm trying to help you and I want to see you improve.

I know guys are hard on you but its because they've been tryin to help you. Remember that. So can you start being a little more mature and not get into flame wars please.
 

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ElStud said:
Haha, keep coming with the funny comments guys. This is a prime example of how this forum has gone to hell and is no longer about seduction, but spamming, making jokes and hating on the guys getting success, while you guys stay home and don't do sh*t.
http://petlauncher.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/08/dont_kill_me.jpg

Ye real succes indeed

ElStud said:
I could've definitely closed this set, but didn't.
http://i52.photobucket.com/albums/g30/Sonzor/lol.jpg
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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