"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So I was just walking around during the track meet and I see these 2 girls. Blah blah, I opened and one of the girls seemed immediately interested. I qualified the one girl by telling her "Ah, you have the same name as my sister I like you more" and the other girl is constantly trying to get in on the in action. At one point I put my arm around that girl and she returned the kino by putting her hand on my back. Other than that, most convo was fluff. Eventually I hugged her and ended the convo.

Talked to her later again, introducing her to my friends and I basically have another fluff convo with this girl. Eventually she had to leave to run the two mile and I said bye.

Something random that happened was these girls randomly coming up to me and giving me a piece of starburst. Then I'm like "So what is this my birthday present or something?" and one of them is like "Yeah".

I could've definitely closed this set, but didn't.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MikeYikes122 said:
Do you ever actually run during these track meets?
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no way man hes too busy running his A game on those track chicks!!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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MikeYikes122 said:
Do you ever actually run during these track meets?
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ROFL!!!!!!!!!!!! you know thats probobly the best question he has ever been asked. You just made my day buddy.
 
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ElStud said:
So I was just walking around during the track meet and I see these 2 girls. Blah blah, I opened and one of the girls seemed immediately interested. I qualified the one girl by telling her "Ah, you have the same name as my sister I like you more" and the other girl is constantly trying to get in on the in action. At one point I put my arm around that girl and she returned the kino by putting her hand on my back. Other than that, most convo was fluff. Eventually I hugged her and ended the convo.

Talked to her later again, introducing her to my friends and I basically have another fluff convo with this girl. Eventually she had to leave to run the two mile and I said bye.

Something random that happened was these girls randomly coming up to me and giving me a piece of starburst. Then I'm like "So what is this my birthday present or something?" and one of them is like "Yeah".

I could've definitely closed this set, but didn't.
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Elstud what do you do evenings/weekends? I think you need to get out and start interacting with PEOPLE at other places than school. It'll help your 'school game' immensly too.
 
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ElStud said:
I could've definitely closed this set, but didn't.
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sad story.

Should have asked them if they wanted to play rock band with you and check out your drumstick.
 
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Should have asked them if they wanted to play rock band with you and check out your drumstick.
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LOL

This forums turning in a joke, quite literally.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Haha, keep coming with the funny comments guys. This is a prime example of how this forum has gone to hell and is no longer about seduction, but spamming, making jokes and hating on the guys getting success, while you guys stay home and don't do sh*t.
 
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Elstud, I tried to PM & email this to you but it wouldn't let me.

I'm not sure if you've noticed but I've spent the past week & a half trying to defend you & get guys off your back. Now for the most part, they are not going to disappear but they've seem to stop yelling & name calling. They have however resorted to mocking you via picks but at least they are not flame baiting you anymore.

However I'm starting to see that your not helping the situation. Your trying to incite them into more flame wars again with this post:

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Haha, keep coming with the funny comments guys. This is a prime example of how this forum has gone to hell and is no longer about seduction, but spamming, making jokes and hating on the guys getting success, while you guys stay home and don't do sh*t.
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If you truly are looking to improve, stop wasting your energy arguing when its not going to help you improve. Simply ignore the haters and only respond to the advice you are given.

Right now your on the path to becoming on equal level with iqqi. However the reason why she isn't banned is because she actually gives good advice at times. I can't say the same for you. The reason I'm telling you this is because I'm trying to help you and I want to see you improve.

I know guys are hard on you but its because they've been tryin to help you. Remember that. So can you start being a little more mature and not get into flame wars please.
 
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ElStud said:
Haha, keep coming with the funny comments guys. This is a prime example of how this forum has gone to hell and is no longer about seduction, but spamming, making jokes and hating on the guys getting success, while you guys stay home and don't do sh*t.
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http://petlauncher.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/08/dont_kill_me.jpg

Ye real succes indeed

ElStud said:
I could've definitely closed this set, but didn't.
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http://i52.photobucket.com/albums/g30/Sonzor/lol.jpg
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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