"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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FR: 2 sets I approached today.

ElStud

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So today I approached 2 sets. Yeah... not much more to say. Here's how they went...

The First Approach
So I'm walking into the hallway and I go up to this Sam dude and I'm like "Damn dude, these chicks must be shy I've been sitting here for 10 minutes and they haven't talked to me". So while Sam is talking to this Kelly girl, I sort of AMOG him and the girl starts giving ME eye contact...

Me: Hey, you know what would be cool?
Kelly: What?
Me: You coming to this game on Friday.

Blah, blah, blah, we talk, I tell how I play tenor sax and stuff and her eyes are still on me. Eventually I close the set and say "What's your name anyway?" and she's like "Kelly" and I close the set and Sam dude's like "Ok... Mike" obviously wanting me to get out of the set.
Nothing amazing here. But is it me or is ****blocking other dudes AND getting the attention of the girl he was talking to, fun? I don't know, it is to me.

So there's this set of girls I wanted to talk to at lunch, but I didn't have the balls to go there and set down and eventually the bell rang. So while these girls are walking to class I open with "You know what would be badass, if you guys came to this game on Friday". Blah... tell them how they could cheer for me and eventually one of the girls gets particularly interested. Then as I'm walking, we hold eye contact and she justs starts to smile and say "You know, you've got a cute smile, hollywood probably wouldn't want you though because you've got a C smile not a U smile" and she sort of laughs, but I think she may of heard the line before because the set sort of ended after that. Then these two AMOG dudes come and put there arms around a few of the chicks I was talking to. Twas a pretty bad set.
Yeah, that set sucked.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hey man that line of C and U smile is a routine created from SYLE, read THE GAME there he wrote it.

its strange, you should ask her were she hear that: She was picking up you lol :)
 

ElStud

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JEFE said:
hey man that line of C and U smile is a routine created from SYLE, read THE GAME there he wrote it.

its strange, you should ask her were she hear that: She was picking up you lol :)
She didn't actually say she heard it, but she reacted to it like that. Maybe I'm just overanalyzing a small thing.
 

smooth guy

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Drop this "coming to the game" crap. A girl isn't interested in "cheering" on a guy she doesn't even know.
If you're gonna number close or anything find a different spot for a "date."
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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